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Is it just me, or when you become "the tech guy", family and friends become extremely entitled to your help? (lemmy.world)

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I wish I never told anyone I worked or studied tech. Especially older family and friends, because their requests for help are relentless.

A lot of friends are chill with it, and I don't mind doing a little bit of help, but sometimes people are who are OFFENDED when you don't want to help. In the same way a contractor friend won't remodel your home for free, I am not going to fix every single issue you have with your computer for free. I'm happy to give advice, but i'm not going to work for hours without pay to fix everything.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Someday, all your elders will be dead, and you might wish you'd spent more time with them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 21 hours ago

yeah, quality time and not figuring out the hell they did this time that fucked up device X and then spending an afternoon trying to undo the consequences of their ignorance

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

You must've had nice elders

[–] [email protected] 1 points 13 hours ago

About 25/75 split. You can guess which side is which. Almost all my family is dead and I miss them. Some more than others.