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So my three year old has, since she was little, been really into jumping. I try to warn her that she could seriously injure herself, but this hasn't happened yet so she doesn't think I'm serious. But she jumps over and off anything. Sisters bunk bed to the armchair 2 meters away? No problem. Bunk bed to the floor? Sticks the landing every time. I swear my partner must have cheated on me with a f##king spider monkey.

How do I convince her to not do the jumps that could break her ankle if she lands wrong? I'm not getting through to her. I'm happy she is physically active, but she's taking the piss.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Don't know where you're located, but there are parkour gyms popping up all over the place, and most have kids classes. They may go by ninja warrior gyms or be combined with climbing or gymnastics gyms. These gyms are often designed with kids and safety in mind, and will teach kids safe, sustainable movements

Another option is to scout a local parkour group. The one I've attended events of most in the past, SF Parkour (in the SF bay area) has events specifically for kids. You'll want to vet the groups of course and likely be present as they're not daycares, but you may be surprised how many parkourspeople are knowledgeable and mindful about safety and developing sustainable body mechanics. There are some reckless groups and members out there for sure, but most are rather cautious

Parkour is a meditative practice for most I've encountered and seen online, though that may be NorCal thing and online self-selection. Scouting some strong mentors and content from online communities that reinforce learning one's limits and safely expanding them will likely encourage her to do the same. Can't speak more highly of Raul Piscoya, the guy who runs SF parkour

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

I don't think the local parkour gym takes anyone under 14. Probably for insurance purposes. But I'll see if there's anything similar.