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[–] [email protected] 35 points 1 year ago (19 children)

No snow, not hot, nothing rural, not conservative? You've just cut out more than 99% of the country. There's barely any snow on that road. That means basically nothing north of, like, Oklahoma.

"Nothing is affordable in the .5% of the country I deem worthy of living in!"

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 year ago (7 children)

as someone in that country, 0% of it is worthy of living in

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Assuming you have employable skills, get a work visa and go live in a country that is "worthy" of you then. Life is short.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I agree life is short, but also you cannot expect me and thousands of other people to just drop everything to follow the vague goal of "get a work visa". Not only does that require a ton of planning (picking a country, finding a job, interviewing, being on waitlists, finding a place to stay, etc), but you have to be financially stable too. What am I supposed to do about my lease that isn't up for several months? What about my pets? My car? My bank accounts? How would I get my medications on whatever new health insurance I'd be on (since every country has different laws for what is over-the-counter VS prescription)? I'd have to leave behind all my friends and family. I'd possibly have to learn a new language, and convert all my money into a new currency. I'd definitely have to learn new labor laws. When my work visa expires would I want to stay in the new country or move back? If I'm staying then I'd have to get citizenship, which is a whole can of worms in itself. The whole "get a work visa" advice sounds awfully similar to the "just get a better job" advice you hear countless times, as if that too isn't insanely difficult unless you Know A Guy and have connections. I would love to work abroad and such, but myself and many others just do not have the energy or financial means to do so, so we're stuck here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sorry to hear that. It sounds like that's what the person I was responding plans to do, but I feel for you about feeling stuck. I hope your situation improves.

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