▲ 614 ▼ Anon is unpopular in high school (sh.itjust.works) submitted 2 years ago by Early_To_Risa@sh.itjust.works [M] to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works 45 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] psycho_driver@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (4 children) There are popular kids with souls. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 child) Honestly, it was never the popular kids who I had trouble with in school. They were mostly cordial fellows. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Yeah the popular kids were always perfectly pleasant. Once I got attractive and learned how to act they interacted with me more, but even before then they weren’t mean. It was the fellow losers who bullied me. Looking back it’s honestly amusing how much it wasn’t about nerds vs jocks or anything like that. The biggest social division aside from minor cliquiness based on interests was who was pleasant to be around vs who wasn’t. Though attractiveness really did help as I learned. permalink fedilink source parent [–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Literally everyone has a soul, stop feeding into this false dichotomy of popular kids versus nerds. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wormer@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Popular people in my experience are genuinely nice people, which makes sense because who doesn't want to know more nice people permalink fedilink source parent
[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 child) Honestly, it was never the popular kids who I had trouble with in school. They were mostly cordial fellows. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Yeah the popular kids were always perfectly pleasant. Once I got attractive and learned how to act they interacted with me more, but even before then they weren’t mean. It was the fellow losers who bullied me. Looking back it’s honestly amusing how much it wasn’t about nerds vs jocks or anything like that. The biggest social division aside from minor cliquiness based on interests was who was pleasant to be around vs who wasn’t. Though attractiveness really did help as I learned. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 7 points 2 years ago Yeah the popular kids were always perfectly pleasant. Once I got attractive and learned how to act they interacted with me more, but even before then they weren’t mean. It was the fellow losers who bullied me. Looking back it’s honestly amusing how much it wasn’t about nerds vs jocks or anything like that. The biggest social division aside from minor cliquiness based on interests was who was pleasant to be around vs who wasn’t. Though attractiveness really did help as I learned. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Literally everyone has a soul, stop feeding into this false dichotomy of popular kids versus nerds. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] wormer@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Popular people in my experience are genuinely nice people, which makes sense because who doesn't want to know more nice people permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wormer@lemmy.ml 1 point 2 years ago Popular people in my experience are genuinely nice people, which makes sense because who doesn't want to know more nice people permalink fedilink source parent
