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If you had to divide your life by one event, before and after, what would that event be and why? (lemmy.autism.place)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I guess it's another way of asking, "What event in your life had to most effective impact?"

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Pre mid-summer 2011 and post mid-summer 2011.

This was before and after my 2nd open heart surgery. My parents had to make a quick decision: replace a valve with either a pig or mechanical valve. They chose mechanical valve and now I've been taking blood thinners and doing yearly blood draws for nearly 1 and a half devades. That was a barely more than half my life ago at this point, which is absolutely crazy to think about.

Edit: thought about it for a second while reading my post. Airtle less than half my life ago. Words are confusing.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago

If the pig option included immune suppression drugs for the rest of your life, or for like 10 years until it wore out and you had to have another major surgery to replace it, mechanical valve plus blood thinners and a yearly blood draw sounds like the much better deal. I know blood thinners come with their own long term effects, but nothing compared to immune suppression.