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This is entirely up to you and your internal set of ethics and obligation.
You didn't mention if your Uncle is irresponsible or wasteful with money. For myself I think this would be the key to my sense of obligation.
If your Uncle is frugal and very careful with money, but needs more for basic quality of life for your nieces and nephews, then I would think its appropriate and fine to help out to some % of your disposable income, maybe 3% or 5%. Think of it like family based charity.
On the other hand if your Uncle is wasting money extravagantly, then there is no point in helping, because it will be - at best - wasted, and encourages the Uncle to continue wasting as much money as possible to always be in need to maximize the donations.
But this is entirely up to you, if you don't want to pitch in, you don't have to! However, it does set the tone for family expectations if you need help in the future.