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saying that homophobes are just "secretly gay and trying to repress it" is homophobic itself (hexbear.net)

submitted 2 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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It is victim blaming, we are not the reason homophobia exists or that people become extremely homophobic. It is not oppressed people that cause their own oppression, we don’t in some way “deserve” it.

Some aspects of the identity of sexuality may be related to physical and things we cannot control, but at the end of the day it is an identity. If they do not see themselves as gay, they are not. It is not for you to assign an identity to someone, even someone you don’t like. Even if someone might identify as gay outside of these power structures, in here they aren’t. Even if they would be gay, they participate in our oppression because being straight is beneficial to them, not because they “are secretly gay”. If they did homophobia because they were “ashamed” it wouldn’t be helping so many of them get into positions of power

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[–] [email protected] 44 points 2 months ago (4 children)

This shit is rampant in lib spaces, and it drives me nuts. Every time a chud does or say something anti-queer, I see libs joke about how they must be having secret gay orgies, and when someone points how problematic that is they see nothing wrong with it. agony And then, whenever one of those privileged chuds turn out to be gay, libs act all smug and feel vindicated by it, using it as evidence for their fucked up repression theory while lacking any understanding of class interests, power dynamics, and how oppression works.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 months ago (1 children)

New bit idea: every problematic gay person we start insisting they're secretly het and trying to repress their affinity for terrible relationships/becoming their parents.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

Kevin Spacey definitely has repressed het energy

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