▲ 2647 ▼ stop asking for a karma system (lemm.ee) submitted 3 years ago by awesome_person@lemm.ee to c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world 554 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 20 points 3 years ago (1 child) The biggest issue in some places was, even if your opinion is valid, if it didn’t fit the group speak, it would be downvoted regardless. It wasn’t really a great indicator if your opinion was popular or not, it was more if it got that groups niche. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] blanketswithsmallpox@kbin.social 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) wasn’t really a great indicator if your opinion was popular or not, it was more if it got that groups niche. ... That's called popular opinion lol. Of course it matters where you say something. It's literally no different than IRL. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world -2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) If I’m on Reddit it’s to Reddit, it’s not to change my vocabulary and content to fit each individual subreddits niche. Imagine being in a country bar and a table only wants to talk about and listen to rap music. The rest of the place shouldn’t have to bend to their will or create some safe place for them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] nuke@yah.lol 7 points 3 years ago (2 children) There's an old saying to "read the room". It's the same online and offline. The reaction you get depends entirely on the audience present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Reading the room is about the tone you set, not the words you say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong, or that popular opinion is wrong. Questioning themselves makes people uncomfortable. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 0 points 3 years ago Yes, and Reddit as a whole should be the audience, not the Emos in the corner… permalink fedilink source parent
[–] blanketswithsmallpox@kbin.social 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) wasn’t really a great indicator if your opinion was popular or not, it was more if it got that groups niche. ... That's called popular opinion lol. Of course it matters where you say something. It's literally no different than IRL. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world -2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) If I’m on Reddit it’s to Reddit, it’s not to change my vocabulary and content to fit each individual subreddits niche. Imagine being in a country bar and a table only wants to talk about and listen to rap music. The rest of the place shouldn’t have to bend to their will or create some safe place for them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] nuke@yah.lol 7 points 3 years ago (2 children) There's an old saying to "read the room". It's the same online and offline. The reaction you get depends entirely on the audience present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Reading the room is about the tone you set, not the words you say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong, or that popular opinion is wrong. Questioning themselves makes people uncomfortable. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 0 points 3 years ago Yes, and Reddit as a whole should be the audience, not the Emos in the corner… permalink fedilink source parent
[–] schmidtster@lemmy.world -2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) If I’m on Reddit it’s to Reddit, it’s not to change my vocabulary and content to fit each individual subreddits niche. Imagine being in a country bar and a table only wants to talk about and listen to rap music. The rest of the place shouldn’t have to bend to their will or create some safe place for them. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] nuke@yah.lol 7 points 3 years ago (2 children) There's an old saying to "read the room". It's the same online and offline. The reaction you get depends entirely on the audience present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Reading the room is about the tone you set, not the words you say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong, or that popular opinion is wrong. Questioning themselves makes people uncomfortable. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 0 points 3 years ago Yes, and Reddit as a whole should be the audience, not the Emos in the corner… permalink fedilink source parent
[–] nuke@yah.lol 7 points 3 years ago (2 children) There's an old saying to "read the room". It's the same online and offline. The reaction you get depends entirely on the audience present. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Reading the room is about the tone you set, not the words you say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong, or that popular opinion is wrong. Questioning themselves makes people uncomfortable. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent [–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 0 points 3 years ago Yes, and Reddit as a whole should be the audience, not the Emos in the corner… permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Reading the room is about the tone you set, not the words you say. People just don't like hearing that they're wrong, or that popular opinion is wrong. Questioning themselves makes people uncomfortable. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The tone you set is dictated by the words you say. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago And the words you say are dictated by others potential opinions on what you said and the tone you said it permalink fedilink source parent
[–] schmidtster@lemmy.world 0 points 3 years ago Yes, and Reddit as a whole should be the audience, not the Emos in the corner… permalink fedilink source parent
