Unpopular Opinion
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1. NO POLITICS
Politics is everywhere. Let's make this about [general] and [lemmy] - specific topics, and keep politics out of it.
2. Be civil.
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4. Shitposts and memes are allowed but...
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5. No trolling.
This shouldn't need an explanation. If your post or comment is made just to get a rise with no real value, it will be removed. You do this too often, you will get a vacation to touch grass, away from this community for 1 or more days. Repeat offenses will result in a perma-ban.
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again with this shit, this isn't the problem. (apologies if im incredibly brazen, i've talked to a lot of people about this and seen this statement multiple times now)
We're explaining why the hypothetical exists. Rather than what it's purpose is, they don't understand the purpose of the hypothetical, and as a result, are criticizing it's use. Telling them that the hypothetical is "actually not about hypotheticals at all, and actually its about the common understanding of woman" does nothing, they literally already know.
What we should be explaining right now, is that it's supposed to be inflammatory, and that the entire purpose of it is to bring to light the specific issue that woman have with their views of men in society as a whole, and how that exists in relation to how the rest of society views that view itself (often negatively, as we just learned, but immediately ignored for reasons unbeknownst to me) and most specifically here. The aspect everybody seems to be missing.
How we can fix this problem, to better society, so that men don't fucking rape women.
Please explain your comment. It could be seen that you are (mockingly or otherwise) stating that all sex is rape. As this is not completely clear, I would ask that you explain what you meant.
Following that logic:
We shouldn't look at our past and say "we will never rise up above this, so why try". We become better incrementally, by TRYING to be better.
By basically saying "you're disillusion for advocating for better" means you've given up. I and many like me haven't. There's no reason we can't work towards a safer society for all.
I mean you can try but those things will always exist. That's all my point is. You can educate and in this case berate but that's human nature for you.