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submitted 17 hours ago by Skulynism@lemmy.zip to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Hello , im a 22 year old girl from France, new around there after reddit got my ass. I miss talking to new peoples, need to practice my english.

I work in childcare, love being a movie nerd, playing videogames, reading books, hiking etc feel free to message me im all down

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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by lunarcat@lemmy.ca to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Hi! I'm new to Lemmy and I'm looking for a friend to get to know and chat with every day. I'm 27 years old from the Canadian prairies (MST), a complete homebody, and my hobbies include reading, drawing, baking, and watching things. I also love nature and am passionate about biodiversity and ecosystem conservation, even though I'm not really an outdoorsy or adventurous person.

Here are some photos of me and stuff I like to do: https://imgur.com/a/WXNxG2u. I hate taking photos of myself so please don't ask me for pics when we get to chatting, but if appearance is important to you, there you go, that's me. You can decide whether you'd like to talk to me based off those photos.

As a conversation starter I'd love to hear all about your 2026 resolutions. Maybe we can even work on ours together! Or if you're not a goal setter, tell me about the last rabbit hole you tumbled into. Mine was a true crime case about the murder of Boston police officer John O'Keefe. If neither of those work, feel free to take the lead and direct our conversation as you please.

Thank you! 🙂

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Edit [Jan 3 2026]: Just a note to anyone passing through that so long as this post is up, the invitation is open!

So I have the week off, and I've been scrolling Lemmy and having all this loneliness epidemic themed stuff jumping out at me today. Kept thinking "man, I should invite people to my local haunt, even if we just grunted on our phones or something."Then I saw this community mentioned in a thread about OSS dating apps. So screw it, let's add a post here.

36 M, recently separated, seeking lemmy users who want to chat with a lemmy user IRL in Ottawa, ON. I like movies, pinball even though I suck at it, interested in (if not super knowledgeable about) local history, love live music (rock, punk, psych, jazz, funk, etc.), weird life stories, and what if contemplations (ask me about my gradual tiki night idea). I also make shitty collage type things recently.

You? You're a lemmy user! You want to leave the house mostly so you can say you did it! Maybe the things above are interesting to you! Maybe you don't actually give a shit! Who knows - all are welcome! Bonus points if, like me, you are not a lemming but a sh.it.head.

I'd want to meet up at my super-hip local haunt in the west end. Looking at this from a mostly platonic perspective, but hey, who knows?

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submitted 3 months ago by Jojo117@lemmy.world to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Idk what it is lately I’ve been feeling super horny! If anyone wants to have some fun with a guy like me let me know!

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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by ambivert1411@lemmynsfw.com to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Hey ladies, are you exhausted from your daily routine? do you feel exhausted and horny and wanting something more at the end of each day but dating is just too complicated?

All of these problems can be solved in an evening . An evening that starts with a dinner or boba date where we get to know each other and set boundaries. This will be followed by a very firm yet sensual massage that will melt away all of your stress. It will cover your head, neck, shoulders, your entire back and your legs and feet. Your ass will be mostly left alone unless instructed otherwise by you. We will continue our evening as I get to my main course which will make you squirm and moan until I leave my mouth and you completely satisfied. I'm not an expert at eating pussy but I've been told that my enthusiasm more than makes up for it and I'm also very good at following instructions.

About Me- I'm 22M, SE Asian background, average build, short hair, beard and 420 friendly ( edibles, I do not smoke but fine if you do) . I can host in a hotel room but not at my apartment and I'm also open to travel if you're able to host. I'm also open to being your regular 'masseuse with benefits' if you like my vibe . I'm available this weekend so hit me up ASAP so we can get to know each other a bit before our actual meet-up.

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submitted 2 years ago by elmiar@lemmy.world to c/l4l@sh.itjust.works

Umm that's pretty much it. Don't think this is a low effort post. I couldn't elaboratively tell all my feelings, because I may end up venting here. I'd like to tell the users that I am alone. And now a days I feel lonely and empty. I am a good guy with good sense of humour, but I lost myself in many events, that now I'm alone. I wish to get friends with people who are having the same thought process as mine (I hope, if you're on lemmy, then you're almost) and I'd like to talk to you. Thanks.

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Heyo. Been playing a bunch of PS5 lately due to life circumstances and kinda want to play with people. Although at times I'm just not gunna want to talk, so even if yo6y want to play and never speak I'm down.

-I normally play Rocket League, although I'm really disappointed by the recent news. -Just bought MW3 since I need a popular shooting game as Battlefield isn't doing too well and I'm not the biggest fan of battle royals -Exoprimal has been so dumb it's fun -I've been playing a bit of Balders gate and Cyberpunk but I'm not really a single player guy. Once you check my username it'll make more sense lol -Mainly any multiplayer game I'm down to play

I also sometimes just don't talk to people. Some people get mad and those relationships don't last cause they think I'm purposely avoiding them. But I'm not lol I'm just avoiding everyone. Sorry but not sorry

IRL most people would see me as a jock. I played sports my whole life and I'm now starting to see all the effects lol :/ When I hang out with people I'm really social, but my socially batteries drain fairly quickly and require a long charge. My meme collection is pretty alright, although a bit dark at times. Will gladly share stuff that you've probably already seen cause we're both here on Lemmy

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I like hiking and want to do more of it. Is anybody else in the area that would like to go on some local hikes that aren't too strenuous?

I tend to look at AllTrails to find hikes, but what do you use?

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