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I understand your pain. My home language doesn't even have separate words for woman and female, or male and man.
It's as offensive as "black" is. If you call someone female that's fine. If you call someone a female, you're going to look like an incel.
Itβs dehumanizing.
Like when the cops are on the lookout for a six foot white male, itβs okay because cops dehumanize their suspects as a matter of course.
Female as an adjective is inoffensive everywhere, but you will run into problems in some contexts because its definition is currently in flux and different people will mean different things by it.
Female as a noun has the same changing definition deal, and also some online misogynists use it as a pejorative. It isn't one, but they use it as one. As a corollary, some others on the internet have chosen to be offended by the term.
My daughter can be pretty offensive. Quite the potty mouth for an 8 year old.
Not with proper hygiene.