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[–] 3 points 4 hours ago

The only picture of Marisa Tomei that matters to me :

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  • [–] 27 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

    Forget whether the photos accurately reflect her age. She is a beautiful and talented actress who has aged gracefully.

    I’ve had a crush on her since 10 year old me saw her in Oscar.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 12 hours ago* (2 children)

    Forget whether the photos accurately reflect her age. She is a beautiful and talented actress who has aged gracefully.

    My point exactly!

    I’ve had a crush on her since 10 year old me saw her in Oscar

    Same, except it was Only You when I was 11 😁🥰

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  • [–] [S] 12 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

    I have no idea what you mean by this but it simultaneously amuses me and makes me feel a bit queasy 😄

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  • [–] 68 points 16 hours ago (11 children)

    Fuck the obsession with looking like 20-year-olds our whole life. Wrinkles show the lives we've lived and the fun we've had and we don't need to hide that from anybody.

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  • [–] 13 points 11 hours ago (1 child)

    eh, a lot of what we consider to be features of "aging" are actually just kinda straight up damage, like from smoking and spending a ton of time in the sun without sunscreen (hence why old-timey/poor farmers are stereotypically leathery and a bit wrinkly even before they become old).

    We shouldn't feel bad about a couple wrinkles, but looking like a worn leather sofa in your 50's is just kind of sad.

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  • [–] [S] 68 points 16 hours ago (4 children)

    This isn't an anti wrinkles/aging post, it's a Marisa Tomei appreciation post.

    If you check out the pics from this year I posted in reply to a naysayer, you'll see that she HAS wrinkles now and I'd argue she looks better than ever.

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  • [+] -23 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

    Then why post the one where her wrinkles don't show? You might have posted this in appreciation of Marisa Tomei, but you can't control how other people viewing it feel about it and it feels like an anti-aging post.

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  • [–] [S] 34 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

    Then why post the one where her wrinkles don't show

    Because that's the post I found elsewhere 🤷🏻

    you can't control how other people viewing it feel

    Sure.

    That's just as true as the fact that your feelings don't control the intent of others or indeed objective reality 🤷🏻

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  • [+] -11 points 13 hours ago (1 child)

    We can still be mindful of how other people perceive our messages. Perpetuating unrealistic beauty standards promoted by hollywood is not how I want to live my life, but you do you.

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  • [–] 21 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

    Looking to be in the prime of your life will always be attractive to the majority of people.

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  • [–] 6 points 13 hours ago (1 child)

    And yet, men in hollywood are allowed to look old while women all have to look like a teenager to be cast as anything other than a witch/grandma. We have normalized a very abnormal beauty standard and the least we can do is to stop perpetuating it by sharing these kinds of pictures.

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  • [–] 5 points 11 hours ago*

    In very broad and entirely unbinding terms, some women have always found older men attractive because younger men are chaotic, emotionally charged, erratic, and not as safe a bet as an older one. This is normal human behaviour, or at least a variation of it, not some one-up men pulled on women.

    I say unbinding in the sense that its a general pattern and far from a hard rule.

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  • [–] 13 points 15 hours ago

    George Constanza is fuming

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  • [–] 15 points 18 hours ago (14 children)

    How the fuck does she look younger in her sixties? I really hope the answer isn’t plastic.

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  • [–] 76 points 17 hours ago (11 children)

    It's because OP is full of shit. That photo is most likely her in her 30s.

    This is how she looks like now

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  • [–] [S] 61 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (8 children)

    That's just a bad photo. These are all from 2026:

    She may not look QUITE as youthful as in the OP, but you can't deny that she looks great for any age, let alone 61 lol

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  • [–] 17 points 15 hours ago (4 children)

    You know what her secret is? The same as every other celebrity that looks great for their age...

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  • [–] 15 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

    If you're referring to plastic surgery, Botox and fillers, they're also the same reason MAGAface monsters look terrible. The difference is that anything she's had done was done with skill and restraint. Her face and body still look like they belong to her, with her individual personality and features preserved.

    You can criticize, but every wrinkle costs an actress money and opportunities, much more so than male actors.

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  • [–] 3 points 9 hours ago

    Then there's some who for some reason go far left field with the work done, where you can't even recognize who they are anymore, and they look worse than if they had just aged normally. When you have money and pay to ruin your looks that made you famous, I'm not sure what's going on there.

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