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[–] 1 point 3 hours ago

To answer the first question posed. Would I hand a form of id and communication at the door of the bar for them to keep? No.

Are you crazy? Don't touch that. Like listen I don't go crazy like other people do, digital wallets, important 2fa, etc and of course it's encrypted at rest and locked but still no, don't touch that.

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  • [–] 5 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

    Its okay, I cant afford to go to restaurants unless I am working in one of them.

    I interact with my boss and coworkers every day at work. Once a month me and my landlord get in touch about me paying rent. I personally think that is far more human interaction then I need.

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  • [–] 43 points 1 day ago (7 children)

    ...do people often go to restaurants to mingle...?

    If I'm going to a restaurant with people, my phone's gonna be in my pocket because people. If I'm going to a restaurant alone, I'm definitely bringing my phone, because I doubt the people at the next table want to talk to me. That's what bars are for.

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  • [–] 11 points 1 day ago (5 children)

    Good rules. My spouse and I have a pretty firm no phone rule when we are out to dinner. It seems rude to be there with someone and then just ignore them.

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  • [–] 10 points 1 day ago (4 children)

    I don't think I've ever formally discussed it with friends, I just remember reading somewhere that even just having a phone facedown on the table somewhere hurts conversation, so I make it a point to never bring it out. What others do is up to them.

    Although if they're texting/scrolling the entire time, I don't think we're gonna hang out again.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    Does face down phone hurt the convo? I do it as a deliberate statement (like "no phones right now"), otherwise it will vibrate in my pocket and disturb me. If it's on the table it feels better than pocket

    To me: Not in room > bag > face down on table > pocket > face up on table > in hand

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago

    On iOS I use Focus a lot, but for things like theaters, restaurants, etc. the standard Do Not Disturb is enough, and if you use your calendar a lot (like I do so I can tap events on CarPlay to navigate) it’ll give you the option to deactivate the Focus after the event ends, when leaving, etc.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago* (1 child)

    I read somewhere that it does. Just by virtue of having a phone visible makes people think about scrolling. Let's see if I can dig up where I read that...

    Edit: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-brain-and-value/202103/the-psychology-of-the-face-down-phone

    Note it's psychology today, not the research itself. Throwing the link up while I dig further.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

    Wow that's a really cool read. I guess I'll try to find something else to do with my phone. Maybe hide it under a tissue box or something! Haha

    Edit: we made it a game where we find fun and creative places to hide our phones when having coffee with mates

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  • [–] 28 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    The headline is nonsense. I don't give a damn if the guy at the next table is on his phone while I'm enjoying my meal, but I sure as hell do care if he's smoking..

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  • [–] 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

    I would care if he is doing something with sound, like watching tiktok brain rot

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  • [–] 20 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    What is with that "article" format?? They're sometimes interviewing different people, and sometimes just asking themselves questions, which they then inelegantly answer.

    How do I feel about it? I absolutely hate it.

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  • [–] 8 points 1 day ago

    Waiting for the 5G and non-5G sections.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    wish gyms and cinemas would also ban them

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  • [–] 4 points 20 hours ago

    cinemas? yeah, there's not really anything you can do with a phone there that isn't incredibly annoying to everyone else.

    Gyms? no, let's not make fewer people get the exercise they dearly need to stay healthy.

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