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[–] 62 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I'm the worst at adding lol to everything and I simply can't stop. It feels too weird lol

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  • [–] 26 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    Curious if you're a millennial. I never used to use lol, then everyone I texted was using it and I felt like if I didn't I was coming across as too serious and not friendly so I started using it, then people started to make fun of everyone who used it and say it was a millennial thing and now I'm so self conscious every single time I use it but I can't stop

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  • [–] 34 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    It's definitely a millennial thing! I embrace it now because fuck it, I'm old it's fine haha. Younger people are going to find me cringe no matter what lol

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  • [–] 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    a millennial thing

    I’m old

    /me crumbles to dust

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago*

    I never really used "lol" and even when I sometimes want to, it just feels weird so I end up not to.

    I'm still the same, just with smiley faces :) used to practically use them as periods at the end of a sentence :D

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  • [–] 38 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    I had a younger guy at my job ask me if I was mad at him once because I used punctuation in a Teams message. Nah, bro, I'm just in my 40s.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Pretty common. Experimentally, it seems the implicit formula many use for IM is something like

    Fewer than K words + a period = probability P(deliberately curt) = 50%, where K is at least 5, and P increases logarithmically as K approaches 1.

    Which is how, to someone using this formula internally, “Great.” can denote exasperation, “Thanks.” can imply strained manners, and so forth 🤷

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Texting people who never experienced talking to other humans is really exhausting

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago

    I remember when I started encountering somewhat younger adults verbally spell out chat acronyms like “lmao” and “rofl.” I thought it was hilarious, but eventually realized there had been a social shift. Interactions had become online-first, and for some younger people that was basically all of it, and I wasn’t sure how I felt about that.

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  • [–] 27 points 2 days ago

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    When I do add the 'lol'

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  • [–] 23 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Sent my wife a meme the other day. She was sitting across the room from me and texted lol as her reply. I was like, no you didn't.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 days ago

    Since text is hard to decipher emotion, I always add emojis or emoticons to let others know that I’m in a good mood and am enjoying the conversation.

    I don’t really care if the other person doesn’t like it, at least I don’t seem like a sour puss the entire conversation. :-)

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  • [–] 10 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    Instead of "LOL" say "Hell yeah!"

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  • [–] 13 points 2 days ago (2 children)

    I've been told by a Gen Alpha that I give off the same vibe for using periods to end my texts.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 child)

    or apparently if you posting on the fedi, cause nobody on here likes to be happy >:( and takes everything super serious

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  • [–] 7 points 2 days ago

    Pooping face

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  • [–] 3 points 2 days ago (1 child)

    What if I don’t want the person I am texting to laugh out loud? What if I want them to die in a ditch?

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    Funny, because this is what I think when someone says lol. Just a blank, expressionless face whenever I send someone something funny. That, and lmao or rofl. I highly doubt anyone has ever resorted to rolling on the floor from laughing so hard at something sent in a text.

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    Maximum violence: "K."

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago (3 children)

    Emojis are perceived differently by different people. For example:

    🙂

    What does it mean? Am I friendly? Or am I imagining the sound it would make if I slapped you in the face?

    Or this one:

    😉

    Am I being ironic? Or am I trying to get in your pants?

    Such mystery.

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  • What a ridiculously unserious ‘serious face’

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  • Millenial spotted.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 days ago (1 child)