I did something similar and wrote a blog post about it:
https://blog.fra.kt.al/mpd-with-remote-pulse-bluetooth-sink/
I would highly recommend dropping the Bluetooth bit and just use an alsa device on the receiving pulseaudio server.
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I did something similar and wrote a blog post about it:
https://blog.fra.kt.al/mpd-with-remote-pulse-bluetooth-sink/
I would highly recommend dropping the Bluetooth bit and just use an alsa device on the receiving pulseaudio server.
Have you tried the mympd web client?