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[–] 50 points 6 months ago (66 children)
  • [–] 29 points 6 months ago (8 children)

    Page 28 of the document you linked says that although Bushnell identified Lilly and used she/her pronouns on some suspected accounts. On other accounts, Bushnell identified as Aaron and was comfortable using he/him pronouns. It is possible that Bushnell was comfortable with both gender identities.

    If Bushnell was Lilly, that doesn’t mean she wasn’t Aaron; she could have been both.
    Very true. As discussed above, Bushnell may have had a sufficiently expansive gendered self-
    concept that both the gender she expressed online and the gender she expressed offline were
    fully integrated, fully embraced aspects of who she actually was. She might, for example, have
    been bigender or pangender. I did not interpret C1’s remark that she was “gender fluid” as
    referring to the specific gender identity, but she could indeed have been literally genderfluid
    stricto sensu (insofar as any shared subjective experience can have a strict sense).

    The document also says that Bushnell identified as Aaron in documents posted during the act of self immolation. The document also points out that there were entirely separate but both active internet accounts. The account 'acebush1' on reddit was active and used the name Aaron until the time of death. Last activity from acebush was February 24, death on February 25.

    The document does not present the case that Bushnell was uncomfortable with using he/him pronouns or the name Aaron. I think it would be fair to say Bushnell used multiple gender expression.

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  • [–] 38 points 6 months ago

    i don’t disagree with you. i do think it is significant that the event was live-streamed on an account called ‘Lilly Anarkitty’. the paper also describes Bushnell using a masculine name and pronouns on LinkedIn and Facebook, and a feminine name and pronouns on Mastodon, YouTube, Discord, and Twitch. to me, one of those groups is more representative of a person’s actual identity. and as the paper says on page 4, “There is a reason it would matter. Trans decedents are often subject to violence even in death; there is a saying that “they call it a deadname … precisely because the people in your life bury you under it”. Given that reality combined with the fact that trans people face a tremendously elevated likelihood of premature death from all causes, death and the treatment of the dead occupy a little-discussed yet central position in the current consciousness and culture of the transgender community. Our perception was that if Bushnell was transfeminine, then we had a communal obligation to take care of her in death.”

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    [+] 34 points 6 months ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (22 children)
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    [–] 28 points 6 months ago
    [–] 28 points 6 months ago* (2 children)

    Something is fake here, it’s the same drone from this image, but I haven’t yet found sources for either, so both are pinging my bullshit detector

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  • [–] 21 points 6 months ago (1 child)

    its the same kind of drone but the angle is different, blurred landscape a bit greener on the bushnell one. i'm inclined to buy both cause they're pretty scuffed and it's cool.

    heap of 'graphic design is my passion' work for a low-stakes fake

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  • [–] 16 points 6 months ago*

    If you find a source for the originals of either, please let me know. I’m trying to shake the habit of believing things are real because they’re cool

    This one was also sick but no idea where it came from

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  • [–] 19 points 6 months ago* (3 children)

    I was hit by a car while riding my bike to work without a helmet. It was basically The Thing that made me realize I can't stay in the closet and I need to transition, the realization I would have been buried and remembered as another man was horrific.

    But. I also don't know if I would have wanted to be outed in my death if I hadn't ever come out. I know that the very idea that I would be remembered as a man felt like a violation. On the other hand, taking that choice away from me seems like another violation. It counts for something that, in that last and final statement and fully knowing martyrdom was next, Bushnell told us "my name is Aaron." But, it also counts for something that maybe I would have said "my name is MaleName" if I had a chance to have my final words, especially if I wanted my last words to be a political statement and was worried I'd be a distraction. I know I didn't think very highly of myself or the importance of my identity before I transitioned, maybe I'd have kept it hidden.

    Maybe I'd have wanted people to discover who I really was after I died. Maybe I'd never want anyone to know. I don't know.

    This seems really complicated.

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    [–] 17 points 6 months ago

    Just double posting to say you know a comment section is spicy when two threads make up the majority of comments

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  • [–] 17 points 6 months ago

    Iran has a long memory with this kind of thing. They’ve also honored an American that fought during one of their revolutions in the 20’s.

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  • [–] 17 points 6 months ago*

    LILLY!?!

    I had no idea. Far out. :(

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