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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by KaKi87@jlai.lu to c/selfhosted@lemmy.world

I'm asking cause my previous post regarding my server that isn't at home got moderated for violating rule 3. I don't get it 🤔

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[-] HybridSarcasm@lemmy.world 100 points 1 week ago

Your post was removed because it wasn’t about any self-hosted applications, services, or infrastructure. Instead, you were complaining about the customer support of a VPS provider.

A case could be made that Rule 7 should have been cited, instead of Rule 3.

[-] Dumpdog@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

If OP was self-hosting they wouldn't have had a problem with their hosting provider.

[-] megaman@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 5 days ago

As someone runnings things out of my basement computers, i have a lot of problems with my hosting provider

[-] Dumpdog@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I hear ya. My hosting provider is crap too.

[-] KaKi87@jlai.lu 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Alright, I guess I should have rather made a post like PSA: beware of Netcup, they shut you down on suspicion of doing stuff against their ToS whether it's actually the case or not and without giving you a warning to respond.

[-] irmadlad@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

meh...I wouldn't get too crunk about it. If you're here for any length of time, you're bound to have a few mod deleted posts.

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[-] fozid@feddit.uk 4 points 5 days ago

i think that would be called remote hosting or cloud hosting? self-hosting is where you host the services your self, without third party hardware or systems.

[-] PlutoniumAcid@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

It is selfhosting when YOU set it up and CONTROL it.

Doesn't matter what machine it runs on. Not everyone has the option of running a machine at home.

[-] skeptomatic@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 days ago

If you can't run a machine at home then you can't self-host. You're welcome to cloud-host though.

[-] talentedkiwi@sh.itjust.works 76 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

In my opinion, it's (the service) self-hosted and not home-hosted. Hardware is just a platform.

[-] kumi@feddit.online 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Right. Then if this would have been a locally hosted scenario, it's like making a post to complain about the service of their electricity company or ISP. Could similarly be reasonably considered on- or offtopic. But I think this sub is more in the spirit of "there is no cloud, just someone elses computer". I'm with mod on this one.

[-] billwashere@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

Thank you. I was thinking the same thing. Some things it makes sense to host in your home. Things like large media, home automation, etc. Some things it doesn’t. Like DNS, service that require large amounts of egress (most home internet is very asymmetric), anything with a more public face.

Generally it boils down to privacy and reliability. If it’s private, keep it home. If it needs more reliability, put it on a VPS.

My home hardware is just not reliable enough to host something critical. I have redundant systems but it might take a bit to get stuff back.

This idea of it not being self hosted because it’s on somebody else’s computer is just weird.

[-] talentedkiwi@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 days ago

I put my uptime kuma on the VPS to monitor my home infrastructure from the outside. Let's me know when things go down much more reliably.

[-] Dumpdog@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

This idea of it not being self hosted because it’s on somebody else’s computer is just weird.

[-] billwashere@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I am running the software. I set it up. I maintain it. I can change it to whatever I want. It is therefore self-hosted.

[-] Dumpdog@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I agree, but Is it your hardware? Does an outside company own your hardware? Did you set up your own hardware that you control as your own (self) place of hosting? Do you maintain all of that hardware or does an outside company maintain that? Can a company arbitrarily shut down your host like what happened in OPs case?

Self-hosting is my choice to use my own hardware to (self) host. I am wanting to slowly move other stuff from hosting providers and self-host it on my own hardware.

I agree with all your statements except for the last sentence, because I use those same arguments to judge whether or not to host at home (self) or host externally.

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[-] irmadlad@lemmy.world 40 points 1 week ago

Well, if you want to stir the pot, there are heavy discussions on both sides of the fence. Personally, I don't get all pedantic about it. To quote Ice Cube; 'Do your thing man, fuck what they looking at'.

As far as your post being deleted, it seems to be arbitrary at times and rather silent when courteous inquiries are made.

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[-] talkingpumpkin@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

Honestly, do we need a legal definition of what "self hosting" is and what isn't?

I didn't see your post and in the modlog I can only see it's title: "Apparently I'm into Web3, says Netcup" [ed: Netcup is a hosting company].

If your post was discussing stuff specific to your hosting provider, then the mods did well in removing it - if you were talking about things that would have interested this community, then they have probably been too rash in removing the post.

[-] monkeyman512@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

I would be inclined to think that if you are just renting a machine or VM and all the configuration/maintenance is your problem it would be close enough. But I am not a mod and don't want to be.

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[-] K3can@lemmy.radio 12 points 1 week ago

In my opinion, "self-hosted" means that you host it yourself.

Running services in the cloud (i.e. someone else is hosting it) isn't the same as hosting it yourself.

Just have fun, though. Not everyone is in a situation where they can self host. Just do what works for you.

[-] Oisteink@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Imo it’s hosting stuff for yourself or your family. In cloud or closet. If you have an advanced nas and you set up shares so everyone in the house can use it, it’s self-hosted storage. If you set up an iCloud account its not. If you rent vps, manage firewalls and reverse proxies and host your stuff there it’s selfhosting. If you use digital ocean or aws and do it for yourself its selfhosting. Saas isnt self hosting

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