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[–] 214 points 11 months ago* (20 children)

In other news, birth rates are inexplicably plummeting across the globe. Governments remain baffled.

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  • [–] 71 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    If I saw any real positive progress being made I'd reverse my decision to not have kids, but they all seem to want to do what's worst for the planet, so why actively bring someone into that?

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

    In the US at least, I think it’s possible at the local and state levels, but land and money have most of the power. To me, it feels like many leaders pushed the goals back because we were relatively close to being able to implement the progressive changes federally, but it’s become clear that’s still a ways away.

    Those progressive changes can still happen in blue states, and I feel the will is there to elect progressives. States just need to be willing to go into debt to bring forward those progressive programs now.

    Idk, even still after all these years, I find there are still moments that make me happy to be alive and think that it’s awesome to be alive, to have experienced things that were dear to me. Living in a place with others that still care about positive progress gives me a reason to do a little better each day.

    I do think about how much greater life could be if love was what guided policy rather than the accumulation of wealth that’s worth nothing to us when we die.

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  • [–] 23 points 11 months ago (5 children)

    China reversed its one-child policy and people there are having even fewer kids.

    Latin America isn't at the replacement rate of 2 children per couple any more. You know, the continent with all those Catholics? They aren't having kids.

    Only Africa now is above the replacement rate. Likely not for long.

    Human population will peak way sooner than expected.

    What will Western billionaires do when the flow of poor brown people stops? They're dependent on them for cheap labour and to deflect blame onto.

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  • [–] 11 points 11 months ago

    Could it be that housing prices are rising, people are living paycheck-to-paycheck with no job security, and fascism and the threat of a(nother) world war are on the rise?
    Naaah, can't be that.

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    [–] 93 points 11 months ago

    One of those comics that only get more depressing as it ages

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  • [–] 58 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    There are lots of children already here with even less support. I know it's not easy in a lot of places, but adoption is a compassionate alternative.

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  • [–] 53 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Literally my number one reason not to have kids

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  • [–] 43 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (4 children)

    Most people aren't these YT commenters or Twitter megaphones like Donald Trump.

    It's an attention amplification mirage. But we've fed the trolls and given them power.

    IMO if folks were largely aware of that, they'd be burning down the headquarters of Big Tech, Big Media, stuff like that. Instead, it makes them depressed because it looks like all other humans are mad, and I find that really sad.

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  • [–] 19 points 11 months ago

    You definitely have a point. They're not a majority of people. They're just so loud and noisy the real majority can't have a decent conversation anymore.

    Not in social media, at least. Social media is totally rigged and scored to fascism.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    The reason assholes like Trump can win elections is because there are SO many other assholes who support them.

    Trump won because more people valued hurting others than helping others.

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  • [–] 37 points 11 months ago (21 children)
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    [–] 31 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    My son was born in December 2019. Not a day goes by where I don't feel this in my soul. I hate knowing the suffering he is likely to witness or experience so a few can have it all. It equally depresses and infuriates me.

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  • [–] 29 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    Fuck that's a depressing comic

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  • [–] 27 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    2019... The good old times. And then things went bad.

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  • [–] 19 points 11 months ago (11 children)

    This here is straight up one of the biggest reasons I do not want a kid. Right now it sure seems like the best thing I could do for my children is not force existence upon them.

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  • [–] 15 points 11 months ago (1 child)

    I once had a girlfriend tell me she aborted a baby I'd fathered. At the time I was surprised (I learned there was a baby), puzzled, saddened, depressed, and I went to have a drink (ok, several).

    But of course she was right.
    What kind of lunatic would raise children nowadays?

    However The problem is that only lunatics would raise children nowadays. So we'll end up with people raised by lunatics. Our species will drift towards lunacy. (Ok, we're already looneys) Is it realistic to throw kids into the boiling pot to counter the crazy ones? Or should we just let the crazies fight amongst themselves?

    I'm for the lmatter (also I won't be there, so it's not like I care, unless I can haunt them, in which case theyre going to fucking suffer), what's your POV?

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago

    As much as I'd like humanity to improve, it feels off to task my not-yet-existent child with trying to fix humanity. It still simply doesn't feel right to bring a child into this existence, and it still doesn't feel right to task them with fixing it all.

    If I had more hope that very serious improvements are guaranteed, I might be more keen on it. As it currently sits, it's not my unborn child's job to fix what I failed to fix.

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    [–] 16 points 11 months ago (11 children)

    Get a vasectomy, you save on having kids and buying condoms. The only disadvantage is her having to clean up all the creampies.

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    [–] 14 points 11 months ago (10 children)

    Littering is seen as more common than it really is in the public perception thanks to all kinds of cynical messaging from industry groups, like, for example, Big Tobacco and the infamous “Crying Indian Ad”.

    This messaging has the effect of shifting the blame of environmental devastation away from industry and onto individuals, much like how the fossil fuel industry popularized the term ‘carbon footprint’ and shifted the onus of fossil fuel emissions away from the fossil fuel industry and onto individuals.

    As for the disgusting types of comments depicted in the next panel of the comic, a great deal of that is generated by bots to divide us. It also doesn’t help things in this particular case that only 1 of the 2 main parties/sides in the world’s most “important” country (important and dominant culturally, economically, etc.) is willing to consider any changes to approaches to widespread availability of guns. Creating division is as easy as having bots go around blaming anything (even victims!) except the relative ease of access to guns in the US.

    This comic sadly plays into exactly the kind of thinking that leads to defeatism and broad mistrust. The common person is not, in fact, bad.

    In fact, it is instead a relatively small number of psychopaths that perpetuate many of the kinds of problems depicted in this comic. The CEOs of any given Big Oil or Big Tobacco company are almost inevitably psychopaths. And we almost cannot help but continue to give power to these kinds of people. They are, after all, often the only ones who think so highly of themselves and their abilities to even offer to take on a leadership role. Sometimes they crave little more than the power itself. And they are the ones with the most power to steer the directions of messaging towards individual blame and individual misdeeds, rather than towards faith in the common person and blame on the corporations they lead.

    In other words, the comic’s author is falling right into the trap of being led to see the world misanthropically. When you think “the problem is people,” instead of “the problem is a few people,” there is very little to do except become depressed and inactive.

    To solve many of the world’s biggest problems, we literally just need more of the people who first doubt that they themselves could be a good leader to instead raise their hands, instead of letting only the psychopaths and narcissists raise their hands and rise to power.

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  • [–] 21 points 11 months ago* (6 children)

    Naw, fuck that. Even if we weren't in climate crisis, littering is for tools. Fuck people who litter. It's like walking into someones home and spitting on the floor.

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    [–] 11 points 11 months ago

    This is why, as a father, you go on a search for the amulet.

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  • [–] 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

    OP: My desire to reproduce outweighed my capacity for foresight!

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    [–] 9 points 11 months ago (4 children)

    Every generation has had to deal with some version of this, either they could see it coming or they got blindsided by something. Not saying that makes it ok, it just happens.

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    [–] 7 points 11 months ago

    Governments when theres no parental leave, unaffordable childcare, skyrocketing cost of living, no social spaces, and they actively sell out the future yet for some strange reason nobody is having children:

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