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[–] 310 points 2 years ago (13 children)

Nsfw, Nsfl, and "Porn"

I like nsfw memes but dont want my feed full of porn. I have a seperate account for porn.

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  • [–] 75 points 2 years ago

    Yes, a renaissance artwork that contains naked women, actual hardcore porn, and a Russian soldier being blown to pieces in Ukraine, should not occupy the same "NSFW" tag...

    Of course there's going to be grey area stuff, but 3 buckets like this is much much better than a single "everything people might not want to see" bucket.

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  • [–] 40 points 2 years ago* (3 children)

    But all the sfw porn subs ruined it.

    Need a new tag like “sexporn” or “genitals”

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    I feel like the lines at that point get way too blurred. It would be like having a "porn" and "full blown porn" tag or hardcore versus softcore.

    I will admit a distinct NSFW tag could be good for somewhat taboo stuff like mildly offensive jokes for example.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    How do you actually find porn on Lemmy? I've tried and failed.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Apparently lemmynsfw.com.

    But it's mostly celebrity pics, so I'm not entirely sure where else.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    You're only seeing celebrity pics because that is the only SFW community on lemmynsfw. By default most lemmy instances hide NSFW posts unless you're logged in with an account set to show NSFW. They are running 0.18.3-nsfwpatch, so if you navigate there directly you will see everything, but viewing lemmynsfw logged out from another instance will only show you celebrity pictures.

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    [–] 100 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Or just copy Mastodon and do content warnings. They're a lot more versatile.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    How so, for those of us who are avoidant of other places?

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  • [–] 24 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I'm confused on what your question is

    A content warning tag is similar to a spoiler tag, but you can fill out the warning yourself. So you could type something like "movie ending spoiler" or on Mastodon you'll see considerate triggers like "TW: suicide" for various trigger warnings.

    Which the ability for that makes more sense then having multiple individual tags. Also ActivityPub supports it already anyways, and it works nicely on Mastodon

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    [–] 53 points 2 years ago (13 children)

    Not Safe for Work versus Not Safe for Life?

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  • [–] 72 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I think content warnings would be a better approach to this, all other fediverse software have content warnings anyway. Making community content to force use content warnings would be helpful too.

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    [–] 51 points 2 years ago (15 children)

    I haven't seen anything gorey here, luckily. I would much rather see an automatic video tag for both titles and comments. Kind of sick of opening YouTube unintentionally.

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    [–] 40 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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    [–] 39 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (5 children)

    RIGHT!?!?! Like I hate taking a gamble on whether I'll see an infected maggot ridden foot or a big breasted cat girl turning into a Willy Wonka blueberry.

    At least I did on Reddit, I can't get the porn to show up on Lemmy outside of one or two completely dead instances I have to go out of my way for.

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    [–] 27 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    Absolutely. Throwing everything that you may not want to open at work in with hardcore porn as an all-or-nothing view choice is incredibly shortsighted.

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    [–] 21 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Where even are you seeing gore? I left Reddit a while back and I miss eyeblech.

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    [–] 20 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    NSFW and NSFL can mean different things to different people and cultures.

    Best example is that in some countries, showing a boob isn't straight away NSFW as much as it is in America.

    Opposite example: In America, showing blood is almost G rated at this point (at least it feels that way to a non-American watching American media). In China you effectively can't show blood in any media.

    As has been mentioned in the comments already one solution would be more specific categories, probably customizable by site admins to suit their particular site culture. Either that or a site can stick to just a single NSFW tag to donate a more "hey, this might not be the best thing to look at".

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    [–] 19 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    Just do NSFW and PORN.
    Porn is the reason for wanting a distinction, so don't beat around the bush.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago

    That’s not what the terms are aimed at though? NSFW covers a very broad range of things. You expect it to be pork 95% of the time, so it already means that. The main thing people want to separate are things like gore, death, racism, etc. So that’s what is being asked for. Separate links out because a NSFL link should seldom be clicked on but imo deserves to exist for discussion and calling out people on legitimate issues.

    I was never a fan of the “death porn” put on Reddit but I do appreciate the real and unsanitized reality of some situations when the news can’t show them.

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    [–] 11 points 2 years ago*

    This is one of my dream features to make lemmynsfw moderation easier, alongside site mods and content warnings (alongside the ability to edit and force nsfw on posts in specific communities... and maybe being able to by default turn off instances caching OUR images as a "do not cache" server flag....)

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