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If I ignore/block them, it allows them to continue unchallenged. I hate getting into it with them, since they are a baseline idiot.

I guess that's it. I saw a person with a 6 month account spouting garbage, was gonna block but thought perhaps that wasn't morally responsible. Wondering what the options were.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Ignore it. It is really that simple. Like what are you going to do?

Get into arguments because someone disagrees with you on the internet? LOL

Life is already short enough as it is.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

i just like to tell them all the horrible ways they should die. it's about as effective as anything else (not at all)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Where are you encountering these types of conversations on Lemmy? I haven't hardly noticed any sort of debates or conversations like that here. I just figured most conservatives just avoid this place either because they are keeping to their own echo chambers or aren't smart enough to figure out how Lemmy works

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Just turned up replying to me one day.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 days ago

Report them, block them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Bang with the ban gun. get em outta herestalin-gun-1stalin-gun-2

If that's not an option bullying is good too

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

unity Bullying them until the banhammer comes down... I slept so well last night lol

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

You may feel that they go unapposed and therefore you should be a countering force, but really your efforts are moot. People have their beliefs that won’t be changed online, at least not from some internet stranger. You can make the best arguments in the world and the opposition will simply ignore your point, move the goalposts, and implement the next logical fallacy to keep proving you “wrong” or “an idiot”.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Wow, yeah I think this was playing in my mind. You hit the nail on the head. I'll just block the idiot.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Realistically I think your options are to ignore/block, or confront them against your better judgement. Which, as you know will likely constitute going circles for hours before having to bow out because your brain is coming out of your ears. The problem with both these options is that they likely have the same outcome. However, the latter will also leave them resenting you and the rest of the “online leftists” even more than they already do. In fact, it will probably embolden them in their pursuit of radical centrism just to own the “tankies”.

That’s just my experience and observations tho…

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

You know, hexbear is really a fine example of what you get when the auth right tries to do a parody version of leftists.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

Block users and instances is the only way.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Open hostility. Anywhere nazis are welcome, no one else is.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

blocking/not blocking doesnt 'allow' them anything cept maybe free rent in your brain... doesnt affect them at all.

i tend to ignore them. my blocklist is very small

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

We have different psychologies. Ignoring is less of an option for some of us. But "out of sight, out of mind."

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

im not saying one is better than the other, just that your experience is not affecting other humans.

whether you block or ignore.. no one else knows what youre doing, so youre not 'influencing' anyone else.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Block user/community/instance.

Report if advocating for violence.

There's really isn't enough time to argue with everyone, and these people are probably used to being argued with, and might even take it as evidence of some big conspiracy. -- If you want to make changes in the word, there are more productive ways then arguing on obscure forums.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

I tag them as 'shit-head' and don't engage with them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Fight fire with fire. Assume their gender. 🙂

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

My answer is that it depends on several factors. The first and least impactful thing you can do (and that's in terms of both you and the other person) is to just block them. Next step up is that if they're not on a big instance that you get content from regularly, just block their instance. After that, report them to your instance owner - they might get blocked from interacting with your instance. And the more heavy-duty action is to reach out to their instance owner with evidence and make your concerns known - then if they get booted, you can continue as you were; and if they don't, block the instance.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago
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