When it got to the "Korean student moves into a dorm down my hallway" part, I immediately thought that he was going to be happily gay because that's an easy way out of not finding girls. RIP my straight mans
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I feel bad for this guy. Probably needs to move somewhere less racist to be happy. Sucks.
I can only assume by the image size this is a Marxist meme
It's a rage comic made by a kissless virgin
"everyone who is lonely and doesn't have sex is a rage filled danger to society"
In what way is the author angry here
A "Rage Comic" is a kind of stock meme-template from a good while ago. That's what he's referring to.
@DaringToday is a brand new account, FYI
Adopted from an early age to white family
Lived in all white community for his formative years
Absolutely none of his family friends and relatives were Asian
Ostracized and bullied by his peers throughout primary education because of his race
Brutal, usually east Asian diaspora in the west form a network amongst each other made up of other migrants from the same area with a shared general culture. It is difficult to grow up in a foreign white majority country amongst people who don't have a shared understanding about how it's like.
This is kind of true for any minority growing up in a majority white community. I kind of went through the same thing as a mestizo man in Upstate New York for most of my time there. Had almost the exact same mindset that being non-white made it harder to date. Then high school hit and girls started to call me attractive. While race played a part for sure during the early years, being fat and very socially awkward made it even worse.
He mentions preferring to be alone and I have a feeling his social skills might not be the best. Charisma can turn a 5/10 into an 11/10.
i feel bad for people adopted from other countries to a mayo family. like even though im a communist i feel like adopting a black kid is just a bad idea for me for example, there is absolutely no way i can give them proper survival experience for a black person in a white supremacist country. at the very least it just sucks that so many of these kids arent usually given many ties to other asian people that can give advice and advocate for each other in these terrible situations, makes the kid lose out on so much
if you're considering coming in here and bashing OP for the sole reason that this post expresses male frustration at the difficulty of forming relationships, simply ✨don't✨
let people feel things. If you legitimately can't tell the difference between this and "women owe me sex" or "I can't get a date so I'm going to go shoot up a mall" then you should probably just unsub this comm and never come back because you're not equipped to function here.
If you're here to make a valid critique of the comic, including it's origins or any particular phrasing or themes that have problematic traits, sure, you're absolutely welcome here. We love crit.
The idea of a dating site where they're all like "yep black people and Hispanics and middle eastern folk are all ok to me, it's just the Asians and nothing else" is pretty bad NGL. No dude, they get treated just the same.
I knew this shitty comic is complete bullshit as soon as I saw that checkmark next to Black. Absolutely nobody who isn't Black is online dating other Black people while simultaneously unchecking Asian for extremely obvious racist reasons. Do I need to link that notorious now-deleted OKCupid article about how race affects the messages you get? Notice how surprise, surprise, Black people get shitted on more than any other racial group once again. But this simple fact is awfully inconvenient with the particular narrative this comic is trying to espouse, that of the Asian man being uniquely disadvantaged in dating.
Why are so many people here falling for some shitty comic shitted out by some probably-not-even-Asian incel?
I mean Asian men are ranked lowest by women, and black women are ranked lowest by men (according to that OKCupid article you were talking about):
Rudder wrote that user data showed that most men on the site rated black women as less attractive than women of other races and ethnicities. Similarly, Asian men fell at the bottom of the preference list for most women.
I have quite a few Asian guy friends, and many of them gripe about this. Also I can't get over the number of women (Asian, white, whatever) that say that they don't date Asian men. I legit think this is a real thing that disproportionately affects Asian guys.
My friend is Hawaiin and he's struggled with the same things. I really wish I could do more to help. He is a great guy, a bit awkward (as you'd expect of someone who doesn't get to be around potential romantic partners a lot) and is genuinely a great person. Many of his friends are queer, and he's always been very anti incel. He too struggles with this same problem. If you're going to say this doesn't exist, especially in amerikkka of all places, then you need to get a grip on what intersectionality means.
In response to many of the comments here: "wow I can't believe the perdon who was ostracized when growing up and has minimal contact with romantic partners might be a bit awkward". If you are going to purely blame a systemic problem on the person then you should get off a communist/anarchist forum.
Looking forward to the sequel this guy released right before shooting up a salon or something
That's super unfair and really diminishes his struggle.
Comic reeks of incel vibes. Like I can agree that it’s fucked up that it’s legal for white people to adopt kids but cmon guy, your sexual frustration is a capital You problem. And frankly your identity as an east Asian makes you barely poc to begin with, like you are only allowed in the club because you have some leverage. We are still waiting for justice for Latasha Harlins.
frankly your identity as an east Asian makes you barely poc to begin with, like you are only allowed in the club because you have some leverage.
Lol
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