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[–] 175 points 2 years ago (28 children)

I made the mistake of becoming a manager about 4 years ago. This is one of the most frustrating parts of the job. If you have a good relationship with your team they’ll usually tell you something like “I’ve been getting contacted about other offers, here’s what they’re offering.”

It’s usually about a 20% bump. I’ve not once been able to convince the company I’m at to match it. Usually the best I’m allowed to do is something like a 5-6% raise in the next salary increase cycle.

I’ll usually know for 2-3 months a team member is leaving before it actually happens because of this. Of course, if I’m allowed to hire a replacement they’ll let me pay market value.

Job hopping is definitely the best way to get a pay increase.

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  • [–] 136 points 2 years ago* (27 children)

    I just dont understand that logic

    "Oh god, this guy wants a raise? Fuck him, he wont get anything.. but when he quits, hire his replacement at what he was asking for, or higher"

    and they wonder why loyalty isnt a thing anymore

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  • [–] 76 points 2 years ago (9 children)

    And even if that guy they hire is really good, there is still a large period of time where that person has to learn the ropes and is most likely less useful than the person who already knew the ins and outs. Also, most of the time, they are never as good...

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  • [–] 27 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    Penny wise and pound foolish. They can’t resist the opportunity to exploit, even if it costs the company in the long run.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    We cope by saying they hire a replacement who asked for more. The reality is they generally don’t. They either offload the work to the rest of the dept and go “oh look at that we didn’t need them!” as the group drowns OR they find a wide eyed, younger professional who will take a crap - or at least lower - salary.

    This varies from industry to industry but it’s very common.

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    Remember that Star Trek where they go to the evil mirror universe and the baddies come to the Enterprise? The bad versions get caught because it's hard for someone with no empathy to fake it.

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  • [–] 101 points 2 years ago (22 children)

    Clickbait.

    Article is nearly 10 years old.

    Article contains no studies or surveys showing this result.

    The 50% figure is calculated by assuming a paltry annual raise and consistent large pay bumps by switching companies.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (18 children)

    That being said, word is that in the tech industry at least, hiring budgets are clearly higher than promotion budgets and that moving every 2 years or so is clearly the best strategy for career advancement.

    Just one industry, of course, but the pattern certainly seems to have settled in there, and it may not be a stretch to speculate it will spread to other industries perhaps under the shitty influence of AI.

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    [+] 56 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)
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    [–] 44 points 2 years ago (11 children)

    This article is more than 9 years old.

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  • [–] 68 points 2 years ago (8 children)

    And still nothing has changed

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  • [–] 51 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    My wife and I skyrocketed in our careers. How? Between 1997 and 2008 we did exactly the opposite of what our parents recommended and kept hopping jobs. My longest stint at any one place was 18 months and hers was two years. When we realized that our skill sets were too expensive and rare to waste at a single project, we started our own consulting firm and continue to cycle through projects regularly.

    Remember, whether you are self-employed or employed by someone else, you ultimately work for yourself. Act accordingly and guard your self-interests.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 years ago (5 children)

    But it's also in one's self interest to have a stable relationship with colleagues, being used to an environment, not changing things drastically so frequently.

    There is a big, non-monetary cost to job hopping. If life outside of work is not stable, than changing the one constant is suddenly not appealing, even if more money is the reward.

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    [–] 37 points 2 years ago

    This sucks for the general public. You're always either going to be dealing with a] a disgruntled employee who knows he deserves a raise or b] an under trained new guy. You never get the one who knows the job really well.

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  • [–] 37 points 2 years ago (4 children)

    I used to be one of the “loyal” ones but around covid time I decided to see where I could get by doing this. Since then, and three jobs later, my salary went from around 66k to now 105k. Current gig seems cool and a cake walk, so may stick around a bit.

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  • [–] 18 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Same! There was a shortage in IT for a little while and I took advantage of it and got a $30k increase! With same benefits and paid vacation.

    Now even a 2% pay raise is significant on the salary I make. I feel like I'm finally being appreciated and paid what I'm really worth after a decade of struggling.

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    [–] 36 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    Negotiating with your current boss is significantly more difficult than negotiating with a future prospective firm, because your future prospective firm doesn't have the power to fire you.

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  • [–] 33 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    It's 10000x better in the blue collar world because right off the bat you're assumed to be as useless as a person can possibly be so you either do the futile argue for a raise (which never matches what you should get) or you take a huge pay cut when finding a new job...

    I've been stuck in the same cycle for 15 years now... Get shitty raises for 5 years, get burned out and bail, take massive pay cut, prove my worth to get back to shitty wage I left for but am now burned out again, find a new job and take another massive pay cut etc etc... adjusted for inflation I make as much now as I did 10 years ago...

    These articles are always about white collar work. :(

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  • [–] 32 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Unless you have a union job, then you're making the same thing as anyone else with the same experience as you and you've got benefits and probably job security 👍

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  • [–] 25 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Or, as my omniscient relatives and neighbors who have on countless occasions provided unsolicited commentary on my career would say, "a nice stable job, why don't you ever stay in one place?"

    This has been well documented for at least a decade.

    Meanwhile, employers feign concern over turnover but know it's a better bottom line and their bonus to let employees with standards leave than to do the right thing.

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    [–] 17 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Before covid I switched jobs. Got about $12k more. Months go by, COVID hits and I can't do my job (didn't have the flexibility and daycare was shut down). So I get my old job back but said I'd do it for $X where X was another $10k above from the new job.

    Switching jobs definitely works. It sucks giving up a sure thing and the comfort zone though

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    It sucks giving up a sure thing and the comfort zone though

    Very much. It's also kind of a privilege to be able to do that. Often this requires mobility - which you don't have if your spouse is also working (could not find a job in the same place) or if you have kids (school, friends etc). I think in the USA it is very common to constantly move, but here people usually avoid moving too often. Taking a risk when it's not just you on the line is also a bit harder.

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  • [–] 16 points 2 years ago*

    Ha.. This is true.

    There's only been one company that I had worked for almost 4 years. Every company I've ever worked for, on my second year I check the job market, if it looks good I start to submit my resume with the goal to get job offers that offer either more pay or more PTO/sick time/holidays (more time off combined). Take my job offer, present it to my employer, then just leave to the other org because more than likely I'll have a target on my back when it comes time to cut employees / lay off.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago (10 children)

    Except I can't switch cause the tech sector crashed and nobody hits me back.

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    [–] 12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I wonder how this looks when compared to a decent union shop. In union shops you probably tend to not move jobs a lot, or like in some trades you take your union creds with you no matter where you work.

    You certainly can increase pay by jumping around a lot in regular work, but union gigs tend to have set progression based on seniority.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    Unions periodically renegotiate their salary and benefits through broad company-wide contracts, so its not just a single small bean asking to be paid a bit more. Its an entire department or firm demanding a bigger percentage of the gross revenue.

    Seniority solves a lot of the "how much money do I even ask for?" questions when renegotiating salaries. It also establishes a clear-cut cost of living track. You know what you'll be making in five years, so you can buy a house or get married or have kids with some underlying expectation of how much you'll earn when your cost of living goes up.

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  • [–] 11 points 2 years ago (7 children)

    Why is a 9 year old article?

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    10 year old article might be off juuust a smidge

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago

    I've moved to a couple different employers over the last few years obtaining all kinds of skills, most of the companies went down or moved to cheaper labour countries.

    My wage has been stagnant for the past 10 years. It's all bullshit anyway, they just fuck with you just to fuck with you.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago*

    Don't worry if you're Canadian - wages don't go up here unless you're in a good good union, or crack upper management.

    There may be a few industries where job hopping is worthwhile, but there's a kilometers thick crust of nepotism to crack if you don't have connections

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago (6 children)

    Eh, at some point you find a place you like and stop worrying so much about getting 20% more in another job

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    [–] 8 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    While not focused on exactly the same topic, this HMW video has some intersection and gets into the nitty of what's going on.

    It also means the employers hosed themselves, since skilled labor is not threatened by a potential firing (the way they once were) and are continuously looking for their next rung on the ladder elsewhere. Also, it means promotions are no longer an incentive for hard work, since the workers expect you to hire from elsewhere. So all those incentives to overperform are gone.

    PS: Curiously in The Sims 2 (a 2004 game) I figured out the best way to get rich legitimately (e.g. without using cheats, and not getting an Open For Business storefront, was to swap careers whenever you reached the top tier of a career ladder while sustaining necessary skill and friend minimums. The sim would get promotions every day of work, including a fat bonus, and I could finally afford that pre-built dream-house I made.)

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