me_irl (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 years ago by [M] to c/me_irl@lemmy.world
 

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[–] 33 points 2 years ago

When someone says my name with the correct pronunciation and accent 😳 how do they know my true name

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago* (1 child)

    This is why, as a native English speaker, I just never express my emotions.

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  • [–] 21 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    You jest, sir, but this is the reason I purposefully got a British therapist instead of using my native language in therapy.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    English is my native language. I’m reasonably fluent in some parts of life in French but I feel like if I were to try to have a deeper conversation about something like emotions I would struggle to find the right words. Is that kind of what makes it easier for you non-native speakers that are identifying with this post?

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Similar here, my partner and I are mostly talking in English for non-important/silly stuff and switch to French when things said are serious/important. A way to separate real/serious from joking/sarcasm.

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago

    Me and my wife and half my friends irl

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Maybe nothing is real in English.

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  • I feel this one. Things I say in a foreign language don't really have emotional weight

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    I only swear in English because swearing in my own language makes it more dirty somehow . Also I only speak English online because no one else wouldn't understand shit otherwise .

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago

    So, this is why? I never realized, thanks for that.

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    En tant qu’Américain, je peux être plus honnête émotionnellement avec moins de coûts émotionnels cuando hablo una lengua que no se llama inglés.

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  • [+] 0 points 2 years ago