well, what i really want to be using is a keyboard tiling wm like xmonad or qtile, but for reasons X doesn't support my specific graphics card, and it also doesn't play nice with any wayland WM based off of wlroots, so for my two monitor setup, my favorite option is KDE wayland.

which is to say, i like having a top bar like xmobar that is more like a thinner strip of system info and workspaces a la macos default, but given that i can't have it, i've still elected to shove my windows bar to the top