You're wrong, though. One side is literally performing a hostile takeover of the government, trying to kill our democracy, openly hates anyone who isn't a rich white male, and tries to dismantle any and all social safety nets.
Rural areas pretty much only vote republican because they've been brainwashed into voting against their own best interests. Republicans have been dismantling the education systems in these areas for decades for just this reason. Many of these people need legitimate cult deprogramming.
So no, both parties are not the same by any stretch of the imagination.