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Does the reddit style format breed toxicity? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 year ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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Does the reddit style format inherently make for a toxic environment? Or is it a culture of toxicity from the influx of reditors? For lack of a beter example, on stackoverflow, when someone down votes you, it comes with a comment saying how to improve. On mastodon, people can't downvote you. These platforms are a joy to use, lemmy is depressing if you post. Its depressing because every post or comment, no mater the quality comes with downvotes, and usually no criticism to accompany it, you are left not knowing if youve made a mistake, or if its just trolls, bots, or idiots. At the end you feel insulted not improved. What do you think?

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[–] [email protected] 81 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just post what you want to post and ignore the votes. A few downvotes is to be expected. Try not to read into them so much.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Alternative way to think about it: 10% of people are insufferable assholes. Do you want them to be happy with what you say?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's a great way to think about it.