submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by to c/youshouldknow@lemmy.world
 

Why YSK: These email tips are helpful for people who struggle with boundaries and want to communicate more assertively.

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[–] [S] 23 points 3 years ago (4 children)

You may see it as forced formality, but these tips were created by a person with ADHD to help others who struggle with setting boundaries, especially with time. The creator is a Millennial comic artist. It helps me be more myself when I respect my schedule and don't over-apologize, but I can understand that not everyone sees it the same way.

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  • [–] 18 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    I think you can do all of the things you said without being overly formal about everything! For reference I have ADHD too. ☺️

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  • [–] [S] 8 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    I honestly don't see these as being overly formal, but I worked in finance and real estate legal compliance for many years and that may have warped my perception. I think it all depends on your environment and how well the person reading this knows you (aka will they be able to recognize your intended tone?)

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    People write work emails differently, but I write more like the "don't" list than the "boss" list in most situations. I also rarely put much thought into it unless it's an extremely delicate situation. The only problem I have with this post is it's presumption that your way is the boss way and the other way is somehow inferior.

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