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How do I stop envying prettier women? (lemmy.world)
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I honestly hate myself for still feeling this way at 23. Whenever I’m out, I always feel like the ugliest girl in the room, and it literally makes me feel completely worthless. It sucks watching how nicely everyone treats beautiful women. Nobody ever says anything mean to them. Guys are always looking out for them, and other girls always have their back. They get this pass in life that I’ve never had. No one has ever helped or protected me except my parents.I’ve learned to just rely on myself, because my parents won't be around forever and nobody else gives a damn about me. Maybe this is how it should be.

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[–] 2 points 1 hour ago

Then it sounds like you just need to figure out which one of your current pool of potential partners that you want to have address your wants/needs and figure out which of his wants/needs that you are going to need to address.

Or you can search for different pools of potential partners and see if that better meets your criteria.

But if you don’t love yourself, it is very unlikely that any potential partner can figure out how to properly love you.

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