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[–] 87 points 17 hours ago (11 children)

I'm no hoarder but I can see where cartoon lady comes from, it's still a perfectly good lid and straw. Maybe the problem is our society making so many useful things that are meant to be single use disposable trash thrown out rather than reused

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  • [–] 41 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

    I think pathological hoarding behavior stems from anxiety rooted in trauma (loss of a loved one, neglect, etc), or something like that. A hoarder might say they're just being frugal or environmentally conscious but that's a surface level rationalization.

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  • [–] 14 points 13 hours ago (1 child)

    Being desperately poor in childhood or adult life can lead to this also.

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  • [–] 4 points 8 hours ago

    Real my parents were hoarders and it was all poverty. Thankfully only 1 room was the dedicated junk room, but it was a combo of saving things that would be useful (which did happen), things that were no longer used but functional, and broken stuff. Broken stuff either wasn't discarded because it was large and involved a trip to the dump or because there was an intent to repair.

    It's just sad that I remember how it was before it got to that point. 08 really changed everything

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  • [–] 1 point 8 hours ago

    I think it's a natural adaptation to want to save useful items. It makes perfect sense, but our modern society just has so much garbage and waste. Then sometimes things get wired wrong and then they're hoarding marbles and soda pop tops.

    I do agree that trauma has an impact as well. Just some people are predisposed.

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  • [–] 11 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

    and even the stiff you wanna keep, such as furniture and clothing, is made cheappy as if to be disposed

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  • [–] 1 point 15 hours ago*

    I keep old paper coffee cups and their lids. I get 3-4 more uses out of them before they fall apart. Nothing like brewing your own coffee at home and walking with it to the station

    "you can literally buy a thermos for the same purpose" I hear you say, but a thermos can't be scrunched slightly and put in your pocket after its finished like a paper cup can. Plus there's no worry if you lose it, because you know it's junk

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