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Buy a house that needs major work. Do the damn work. That was the only way I could afford mine, and if I can do it, so can you. And stop living in the city, live out in the rural areas.
So you need to pay a car and gas on top. Very good idea!
I bought my cars at auction for like $2.5kish. They have them all the time between 60k-160k miles on them. Look at your local car auction, you don't have to pay a $600/mo loan on a car as well.
Genuinely... you seem very out of touch. Your entire premise is incredibly ableist. You presume that anybody can do the things you're listing, but many of us are living with disabilities, and not everyone has had the opportunities you have had to have enough money to pay for a house, or to buy a car. A $2.5k car is ultimately, MUCH More expensive than buying a more expensive car, because you are getting one that's barely functional for that price. Once all my bills are out of the way, I take home $100 for all unnecessary expenses anyways, so it would take me years to save up for one of those pieces of junk.
You take for granted that you have the confidence and motivation to do things like, say, even apply to one of these homebuyers programs - but other people have to put in more effort just to get out of bed in the morning.
Check your goddamn privilege.
If you checked my other replies, you'd know I had cancer at 26, and that I'm living with disabilities too. But hey, anything to shirk responsibility for yourself. And no, auction cars aren't "barely functional" either. Most of them last me 100k+ miles. Usually they're at auction because they were a drug dealers car, and police ripped out the interior, but otherwise run fine.
It's fairly clear that not only are you inexperienced with the world, but you also don't CARE to gain the experience by applying yourself. Even when people give you solutions, you reply with excuses.
I understand. It took me getting literal CANCER to get me off my ass and applying myself. It wasn't until I understood my own mortality that I was scared into action.