This is gonna piss some people (men) off, I can already tell...

This is an excellent point and I think it demonstrates really well what people mean by "all men"

Even tho I love men as much as the next straight girl...bear for me, please

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[–] 1 point 1 hour ago (8 children)

Making these kinds of claims only generates division, polarization and, more or les justifiably, makes more men to be reactionary as it makes them feel (justifiably) freely attacked with almost no reason and thus that isolates and alienated.

I always have wondered why it makes more sense to attack people who are bringing up the issue of rape culture instead of empathizing and joining in against those types of men who rape.

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  • [–] 0 points 41 minutes ago* (7 children)

    We're talking about two issues here. Kangae makes a point to say, this isn't constructive, at-best it's sexist- and he's right. That can be true and men can be rapists, and people can determine for themselves if OP is acting in good faith and react accordingly. A post like this might bring one man over to your side, but it's pushing away another too. Strictly speaking it's actually antithetical to your overall goals/wishes, but appears to appease your desires to be correct on the internet. Both sides owe it to the issue to be more stringent with their camps, but each side makes a lot of content and money dancing around the issue without touching it. Do you actually like being a persona on the internet? I don't really get you, but I don't really have too either. Also this is Lemmy, so like, no rapists are around to hear this anyway. They're on twitter.

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  • [–] -1 points 35 minutes ago (6 children)

    Also this is Lemmy, so like, no rapists are around to hear this anyway.

    You would be surprised.

    Strictly speaking it’s actually antithetical to your overall goals/wishes, but appears to appease your desires to be correct on the internet

    Being really presumptuous about what my goals and desires are here tbh. Bordering on personal attacks.

    My goals talking about these issues on Lemmy is to bring awareness to a broadly male audience that is oftentimes blind to some of these hard truths that people live with daily. This place can be startingly misogynistic with not much pushback. It can be very alienating to women and minorities that join here. So I aim to make this place more diverse and to be outspoken about feminism so that others may feel more comfortable building the Fediverse up.

    My comment that you replied to is pretty benign and I was just wondering out loud.

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  • [–] 0 points 31 minutes ago (5 children)

    Happy I could get you to consider things.

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    You are really presumptuous hahaha

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