Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn't have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman...no I wouldn't, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man...fuck yes I'm sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.

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[–] [S] 7 points 6 hours ago (5 children)

My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol

LOL
Not bad 😂

What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

Either Miisha or girl, girlie, sis or whatever else you'd call a fellow trans woman is fine. Thanks ♥️

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  • [–] 6 points 6 hours ago (4 children)

    I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought "dude" or "guy" might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

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  • [–] 3 points 5 hours ago* (1 child)

    I've know that some people consider "dude" genderneutral, but this is the first I've heard this about "buddy"...

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  • [–] 3 points 3 hours ago

    To me buddy and dude are gender neutral. Dude's been like that since at least the mid-90's. Bro is pretty much there too nowadays, especially with American younger Gen-Z. Ultimately it is up to the recipient. If they say, don't call me X, I don't use X. No debate.

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