Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn't have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman...no I wouldn't, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man...fuck yes I'm sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.

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To me buddy and dude are gender neutral. Dude's been like that since at least the mid-90's. Bro is pretty much there too nowadays, especially with American younger Gen-Z. Ultimately it is up to the recipient. If they say, don't call me X, I don't use X. No debate.

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