i've noticed a number of accounts which were fairly active in this community suddenly go dark recently:

  1. @kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone deleted their account about 6 days ago
  2. @katiecakes@lemmy.blahaj.zone deleted her account about 7 hours ago (less than a day after a friendly back-and-forth comment chain with me)
  3. @applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone deleted pretty much her entire post/comment history from the past six months at some point within the last 24 hours, consisting mostly of posts and comments here and on !trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone.
  4. @erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone seems to have also wiped most of her comments and posts at some point in the last 6 days

these are only the ones i've noticed, perhaps there are even more?

i was willing to accept a possible coincidence with the first two, but three fairly active accounts going dark in a week, two of which on the same day, is setting off alarm bells. does anyone know if these people are alright, and what the heck is going on?

(if you'd rather not disclose it publicly, please shoot me a DM on lemmy or at @daporkchop:daporkchop.net on matrix)

UPDATE (2026.10.16 06:30 UTC): @applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone has confirmed that she's going through some shit but is still with us, her account purge appears to be unrelated to the others
UPDATE (2026.10.16 9:36 UTC): added #4 (@erinmeow@piefed.blahaj.zone)

previous versioni was redacting applebusch's account because it was still up, but in retrospect that only really makes it harder to know what's going on, especially now that there are multiple accounts which appear to have done that. for posterity, here is the old version of this post:

i've noticed a number of accounts which were fairly active in this community suddenly go dark recently:

  1. @kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone deleted their account about 6 days ago
  2. @katiecakes@lemmy.blahaj.zone deleted her account about 7 hours ago (less than a day after a friendly back-and-forth comment chain with me)
  3. at some point in the last 24 hours, another formerly very active user deleted pretty much her entire post/comment history from the past six months, which was mostly posts and comments here and on !trans_joy@lemmy.blahaj.zone . (not tagging here because her account is still up, even if mostly blank, and i don't know her reason for quietly deleting everything)
    EDIT: to be clear, i am NOT referring to Miisha, who has apparently also deleted her account within the past hour or so.
    EDIT: the account in question is @applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone, she has revealed herself in the comments.

these are only the ones i've noticed, perhaps there are even more?

i was willing to accept a possible coincidence with the first two, but three fairly active accounts going dark in a week, two of which on the same day, is setting off alarm bells. does anyone know if these people are alright, and what the heck is going on?

(if you'd rather not disclose it publicly, please shoot me a DM on lemmy or at @daporkchop:daporkchop.net on matrix)

UPDATE (2026.10.16 06:30 UTC): @applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone has confirmed that she's going through some shit but is still with us, her account purge appears to be unrelated to the others

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[–] [S] 4 points 3 hours ago

i care, you're an important member of this little community and seeing all your messages gone scared me :(

that said, i'm very relieved you're okay (physically) and that your account purge was unrelated to the others. all the cute trans girls in my phone mean quite a lot to me - frankly interacting with this community is one of the main things which got me through the past few months - and the thought that somebody might decide to end it one day and i'd have now way of knowing what happened is terrifying. and i'm sure i'm not the only one who feels this way!

i don't know what exactly is going on, but if there is any way i can help (or even if not and you just need an ear), please don't hesitate to reach out. your community is here to support you, if you'll let it :)

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