i did that on my last date when she started talking to me about biotec startups to invest in privately because she wasn't getting enough return on her stock portfolio and she was expected a double digit return or how else could she retire comfortably?

The old I can't dance, but I'd love to hold you while you do ploy.

and what if the more drunk person threatens you if you don't rape them? or worse, threatens to tell others you raped them if you don't rape them?

what do you do then? I've been in that situation a couple of times. Not a fun place to be. Sometimes doing the right thing gets you punished.

I bought an astrology tapestry when I was in university. I don't buy into astrology really but the tapestry served its purpose.

what if the other person doesn't believe the truth about who you are?

personally, I've noticing people accusing me of lying when I'm telling the truth frequently. And when I lie, they think I'm telling the truth and never question it.

Weird how that works.