Celebrate holidays. Cool, it's halloween, eh I'll eat a couple pieces of candy. Cool, it's christmas, let me chug down at least some egg nog. I just can't get into the habit of decorating because to me, it's just more work.

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I have a very "religious" auntie in law which kinda forces me to perform, and I find it exhausting. I never had to before I got married cause my mom and I are very honest and the rest of my family just has to deal with it/me, but eh, the things we do for love, right? At least my MIL and I are on the same wavelength, or at least enough not to warrant any crazy code switching. 🙏

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