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[–] 1 point 1 day ago (8 children)

Imo some of the ppl that join frats need them, it's the only adversity they'll face. I've known npc type ppl with no personalities that join a frat and come out actual ppl, idk if its the frat or just being in college tho. There are plenty of ppl that make no friends and have minimal interactions so the forced interactions through a frat could be helpful. Kinda forces them not to be incels/redpill (I think most ppl would imagine thats the type of person who joins a frat, but its the type of dude they hate and wouldn't allow near them), at least the ones I knew of would basically drop anyone who couldn't talk to girls or bring them to their events, so you have to be able to be friends with woman.

And a lot of the sa that happens/happened wasn't people in the frats, it would be random ppl they let in, which is also why only frat members or people who know them and come with 2-3 girls are allowed these days. It's like a social credit check. Still happens, still have sus frats and members, but the rate is much lower for a reason.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago (7 children)

    the amount of woman I had act thirsty over me asking what frat I was in just to lose all interest when I said none is hilariously high. Obv not all women, but a good small amount does like fucking dudes just because they are in frats.

    Do you have any theory as to why? Is it a status thing? Where they want to sleep with someone with status?

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago

    Status, access, dont forget a lot of these kids are rich rich, so trying to get that golden handcuff on early. Probably just an in group / out group dynamic as well. I never got to specifically ask, but i spend a lot of time thinking about it 20 years later. We were all about partying and the frats had the biggest parties, and they were somewhat exclusive. If you're joining these orgs youre porbably looking for like minded people. im sure some of it was harmless, some of it was stupid, and some of it was social. but boy it was a very real phenomenon. The next one i showed up at I had a whole frat boy background ready to goooooo

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  • [–] 2 points 1 day ago (3 children)

    Get a frat boy for benefits. There is selling oneself for things bedsides money.

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