have you ever been a 20 year old boy?

do you think any 20 year old boy could conceptualize the difference? part of growing up is learning things.

it's not propaganda, it's life. nobody at the age of 20 is stable, because they are still figuring out who they are. when i was 20 i had tons of friends and community and all that horse shit, but nothing mattered other than getting sex, because it felt so goddamn good and nothing else remotely compared to sex. it was the most satisfying experience i'd ever had in life at that point and continued to be so until i was like 30. drugs, food, parties, friends, family, none of that mattered a lick compared to the amazing feelings of sex with a girl that I liked. god, to this day those memories are the most strong, far more strong than my 'sense of belonging' at my university... was orgasmic super hard with a hot girl in my bed and laying there with her and spending time with her chilling and banging repeatedly. or studying together and taking fuck breaks every hour or so.

have of the 'mental health' crisis is just society pathological normal life, as it tightens the noose. you are not allowed to figure shit out anymore, apparent if you're 20 and you aren't full 'communting a belongingness' you're ill and need to be 'fixed' or 'corrected'.

god i'm in my fucking 40s and all i do is get lectured by semi-strangers irl about how 'problematic' I am for like owning a cat or other totally normal things. Or reading books. or a million other things people have randomly deecided are 'wrong and bad' that 10 years ago nobody cared about.

you sure the issue is the kids, or the fact the adults judging them are all paranoid perfectionist idiots who worship some ideal that doesn't exist in the real world and to which they are forever comparing themselves and everyone else, in despair? no... that can't be it... it's those stupid boys who are dumb. not us!

no kids, don't want sex, just want 'belongingness' that will totally... 'fufill' you... lol.. why not just medicate them into oblivion if your end goal is this kumbaya passive bullshit ideal? or castrate them! clearly that will fix their 'problem'.

i don't know why it's so hard for people to just admit sex is awesome and not having it sucks and it's one of the most joyful experiences in human life and it very much will make you feel less lonely when it's with someone you love and care about. this has become taboo talking point lately though, apparently wanting sex and love makes you an evil person now.... instead of being a default component of the human condition.

and rather than talk about it we just insist that 'community' will fix it or something... lol