I'm not into tipping when I've visited the US, since I come from a country where servers are paid the equivalent of Fr. 20-30 ($24-43) an hour so there isn't an obligation to tip them, but that's the opposite in the US. Am I allowed to hand them large cash tips such as Fr. 1000 ($1236) or 500€ ($583)? It gets weirder: as apparently fast food places demand a tip, like really? It's getting out of hand, what's the point then?

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[–] 2 points 2 days ago (1 child)

Report your employer. It won’t be ignored.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago* (1 child)

    And I the meantime you can be sure to get really choicey treatment! And you can do it after working 4 doubles in a row that start at 745am and go until 1130pm each night.

    The people who work these jobs (and I used to be one), aren't crunching these numbers day in and day out.

    Mostly YOU just look like a giant fucker if you don't tip. It's not doing anyone any favors.

    Edit:

    And stop commenting bro. Illegal or not it is clear you have no experience in the industry and it's not so easy as just walking down to the ombudsman's office of the mom and pop shop that lets you make your bills every week.

    Change the system. Don't stiff the workers and make them deal with it.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago (1 child)

    I worked six years as a server. And yes, I did crunch those numbers lol. I wanted to know when I was making minimum wage or not. Anyone who doesn’t is an idiot who lets their employer take advantage of them.

    You change the system by not tipping. You don’t change it by continuing to tip.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 day ago (1 child)

    If you are making above minimum wage you are not number crunching. Maybe if you work at Chili's I guess.

    From the server side, having 5 people a day stiff you hurts more than it helps. If your answer is "well fuck, get everyone to stop tipping until servers make less than minimum wage so that they complain and change this" and then say you did it, it's some real crab bucket shit, no?

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    If you are making above minimum wage you are not number crunching. Maybe if you work at Chili's I guess.

    Huh? I made upwards of $40 an hour serving. I still counted my pay. Why the fuck wouldn’t you?

    From the server side, having 5 people a day stiff you hurts more than it helps. If your answer is "well fuck, get everyone to stop tipping until servers make less than minimum wage so that they complain and change this" and then say you did it, it's some real crab bucket shit, no?

    If the state you live in cares about you then minimum wage is already higher than federal by a large amount. Not tipping in a $20/h state helps those in shittier states.

    No clue what “crab bucket shit” means.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 day ago (1 child)

    Huh? I made upwards of $40 an hour serving. I still counted my pay. Why the fuck wouldn’t you?

    Because it doesn't matter how much you make if you are appreciably beating minimum wage until you file taxes? I'm in the same boat where I worked in a white tablecloth restaurant, and it just doesn't matter if you are guaranteed to beat it the minimum. There's not a prize for knowing your take-home pay to the nearest dollar week over week.

    It must be nice then living in a state with $20/h wages, that is not how it goes here. At the same time, knocking down the bottom line of your lowest paid workers is still checks notes a dick move. That's true no matter who you are.

    Crab bucket: you know how bad things are, but you intentionally punish other crabs in the bucket so nobody (or only a few) get out.

    If your perspective is "this problem gets better if I, personally, don't tip" you, tyler, are personally asshole. Period. And the more you understand the situation the worse it makes you look, not better.

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    Because it doesn't matter how much you make if you are appreciably beating minimum wage until you file taxes? I'm in the same boat where I worked in a white tablecloth restaurant, and it just doesn't matter if you are guaranteed to beat it the minimum. There's not a prize for knowing your take-home pay to the nearest dollar week over week.

    What are you even talking about. Literally nothing you are saying makes sense. If you are making appreciably above minimum wage, then why would you be worrying about not making tips?

    At the same time, knocking down the bottom line of your lowest paid workers is still checks notes a dick move. That's true no matter who you are.

    Who is knocking down any low paid workers?

    Crab bucket: you know how bad things are, but you intentionally punish other crabs in the bucket so nobody (or only a few) get out.

    Huh? This metaphor makes no sense. Punish them how? With what?

    If your perspective is "this problem gets better if I, personally, don't tip" you, tyler, are personally asshole. Period. And the more you understand the situation the worse it makes you look, not better.

    And yet this is how the entire rest of the world works. Are they all assholes? You keep thinking whatever you want, I guarantee you make ten times what I did working in a boonies Mexican restaurant, and even at the time I pushed for no tips and better pay. That was with federal minimum wage.

    You’re just getting paid a ridiculous amount and see no tips as a threat to that, rather than a boost to all the actual low paid servers out there. Those that do make minimum wage every week because their employers say employees make more getting tipped.

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  • [–] -1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

    Are you being intentionally obtuse?

    You care about making tips because consistent income means you can make plans.

    Who is knocking down any low paid workers?

    That would be you, or OP, or anyone who is rejecting tipping culture by independently stiffing people LIKE A HERO (/s).

    Direct follow -> look up crab bucket. The idea is you pull others down to keep them from succeeding. It sure seems like that is what you are doing if you understand the situation.

    And the end:

    Yes the rest of the world is better about this. And no, I don't make 10 times what you made, it is more like 15 or 20. I don't see "no tips" as a threat, I see no tips (individually) as only affecting the servers you encounter who are trying to scrape by who ARE NOT THE ONES TO PUNISH.

    I make a shitload of money (yeehaw! It only took 13 years of college), and with that money I can cause some change. The difference between you and I is, having lived the life, I don't do that by being a giant fucker and cheaply keeping $10 in my pocket.

    Quit being a cheap bastard. Tip your workers. Then vote, volunteer, and donate money in that order. Or bookmark this post, and when you cross 40 read the thread again and respond. I feel like you might think about it differently.

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