▲ 29 ▼ Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back? (lemmy.world) submitted 1 day ago by JayJLeas@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world 30 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 day ago (1 child) Neither. permalink fedilink source hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -9 points 23 hours ago (1 child) Because you're aro-ace? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 14 points 23 hours ago (2 children) I have no idea of what that means. My reason for picking neither, is because I don't see any possible way for any kind of relationship to possibly develop if the feelings are not mutual. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 21 hours ago "aro-ace" means "aromantic and asexual", so not interested in relationships, dating, sex etc.. Can be general disinterest or trauma or a rational decision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -3 points 22 hours ago (1 child) They can become mutual over time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago (1 child) But then your original premise doesn't apply permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -9 points 23 hours ago (1 child) Because you're aro-ace? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 14 points 23 hours ago (2 children) I have no idea of what that means. My reason for picking neither, is because I don't see any possible way for any kind of relationship to possibly develop if the feelings are not mutual. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 21 hours ago "aro-ace" means "aromantic and asexual", so not interested in relationships, dating, sex etc.. Can be general disinterest or trauma or a rational decision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -3 points 22 hours ago (1 child) They can become mutual over time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago (1 child) But then your original premise doesn't apply permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 14 points 23 hours ago (2 children) I have no idea of what that means. My reason for picking neither, is because I don't see any possible way for any kind of relationship to possibly develop if the feelings are not mutual. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 21 hours ago "aro-ace" means "aromantic and asexual", so not interested in relationships, dating, sex etc.. Can be general disinterest or trauma or a rational decision. permalink fedilink source parent [–] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -3 points 22 hours ago (1 child) They can become mutual over time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago (1 child) But then your original premise doesn't apply permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 2 points 21 hours ago "aro-ace" means "aromantic and asexual", so not interested in relationships, dating, sex etc.. Can be general disinterest or trauma or a rational decision. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] JayJLeas@lemmy.world [S] -3 points 22 hours ago (1 child) They can become mutual over time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago (1 child) But then your original premise doesn't apply permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago (1 child) But then your original premise doesn't apply permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 6_Electrons@lemmy.world 1 point 9 hours ago* (1 child) ? How does his initial premise not apply??? This is literally his initial premise. One person doesn't initially like the person and then it's inferred they grow to like the other person so then both people like eachother? I'm not arguing for OP the rest of his comments make him sound like an incel but his initial post made plenty of sense that this is what it would lead too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 point 8 hours ago Because the feelings have changed. permalink fedilink source parent