Many people recognize that gender – how a person identifies, presents themselves and is perceived – has nuances. Some people identify and present as women, others as men, and still others as nonbinary.

But there is a common misconception that biological sex – usually determined by a person’s sex chromosomes, gonads (ovaries or testes) or genitals – is binary. This idea assumes that everyone is biologically either female or male, with no ambiguity or intermediacy.

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[+] -58 points 5 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)
  • [–] 23 points 5 days ago* (2 children)

    what, in general, like taking out your appendix? or just exterior, like removing a breast to treat cancer? or just cosmetic, like fixing a broken nose? or gender-affirming, like a fat guy getting top surgery? or gender-affirming as the medically approved cure specifically for dysphoria?

    where is the line that makes it disturbing?

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  • [–] 9 points 5 days ago (2 children)

    All of those would be disturbing if done by the person themselves tbh.

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  • [–] 4 points 5 days ago* (1 child)

    where is the line that makes it disturbing?

    "If they look like a female fuck-toy that makes my peeny go brrr but they aren't really a female fuck-toy but a human with man parts, then it makes me uncomfortable and it's their fault. They're lying to me about their fuckability which is how I grade women, but if their fuckability challenges my heterosexuality it's because they're a disgusting abomination and I'm just a normal person."

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  • [–] -1 points 5 days ago (3 children)

    Why, in 2026, am I forced to read a -50 vote transphobic comment? Does Lemmy just not have the technology to implement a collapse icon that auto-collapses on stupid shit like this?

    I could code this in a day. I could have an LLM code this in an hour.

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  • I wouldn't use that feature. Transphobia is against my instance's TOS and many other instance's TOS so if you're silently filtering it out, you're not reporting it and leading to those pieces of shit being banned. Which stops it outright.

    Report stuff like that when you see it. Report it to instance admins like I do. In time people will learn to hold their tongue or just be too banned to say evil shit like that.

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  • [–] 2 points 5 days ago

    I would be opposed to that feature. I didn't like it on reddit and I certainly wouldn't like it here. We already have a block button if we don't like what someone is saying.

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