The suffering and dead children on either side are innocent was her point. The children, nothing else.
Not trying to be rude, but your reaction here is part of the problem. She made some short thing on Instagram crying about the the dying children on both sides and then got absolutely fucking dogpiled by both the left and the right. How dare she support Israel! How dare she support Palestine!
She didn't make any statement to any degree of support of either side of the war. She was explicitly talking about the young children caught in a war they have no hand in.
I don't disagree with you but I'm not going to celebrate dead kids, or get grumpy about someone being worried about hurt kids because they didn't fence off their empathy from also seeing the children of the bad guys.