It's much better in the smaller more focused communities, which is reddits best use case anyway.

I mean if it is a community for reddit reposting or other social media its not so bad because you just block communities your not interested in.

totally, i manuelly block nearly any account that posts more than three things in one hour

me too, i manually black them all.

Doesn't seem like it, Between the slower growth rate, lack of profit motive, decentralization and community funded instances, people act much more decently here. Reddit was pretty impotent-ragey from the get-go without a way to tune out the bigots. On lemmy, places like hexbear are easily exiled. Womensstuff has bigots, i blocked them, done.