▲ 517 ▼ Crazy Brits rule (thelemmy.club) submitted 1 month ago by Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone 120 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] TipRing@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago (2 children) Have I been confused this when time? If I get invited to have tea am I being invited to a meal? I thought it was like getting coffee. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago* (2 children) Offer of a hot beverage: Would you like a tea? How about a tea? (Shouting from kitchen) - Tea? Even less ambiguous if cuppa/brew etc. is used Typically only offered in the morning or afternoon if you have just 'popped round'. Offer of dinner: Would you like to stay for tea? Come round mine for tea Have you had tea yet? Oh you should stay for tea Typically if you you weren't intending on staying or are being explicitly invited over. Don't see how any of this could be confusing at all to people not born into it with innate understanding 😅 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago OK, I thought I had a good handle on Tea. I was wrong. T(ea)IL permalink fedilink source parent [–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) As a yank, it's because you're saying tea where the correct phrase uses coffee /s But for real, it's because over here we offer dinner to mean dinner, and coffee to mean "no obligation to sit through a meal or anything, but please come over/stay a while longer. A coffee can turn into a dinner, but it involves the intermediary offer of "I'm getting kind of hungry, would you like to stay for dinner?" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago Its much the same here, honestly in context it would be fairly clear what is meant. I mostly say dinner rather than tea myself. But yeah, the social thing to come and sit with a hot drink, regardless of tea or coffee, is generally to offer it as tea before asking if they want tea or coffee. permalink fedilink source parent [–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago (2 children) Coffee can be a meal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Bashnagdul@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You make coffee wrong.... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You’d think, but i lived close to a school where the 16 year olds had coffee and cigarettes as breakfast… permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago Kid I used to know did beer and a cigs for breakfast. He did not follow Icarus' path in life permalink fedilink source parent [–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) I've heard that a russian meal was a bottle of vodka and a pack of cigarettes, didn't know coffee could substitute that permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent [–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago I said can be. The way I make it is something else. permalink fedilink source parent [–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago I have not experienced that, but I have had a Bloody Mary that qualified as a meal. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago* (2 children) Offer of a hot beverage: Would you like a tea? How about a tea? (Shouting from kitchen) - Tea? Even less ambiguous if cuppa/brew etc. is used Typically only offered in the morning or afternoon if you have just 'popped round'. Offer of dinner: Would you like to stay for tea? Come round mine for tea Have you had tea yet? Oh you should stay for tea Typically if you you weren't intending on staying or are being explicitly invited over. Don't see how any of this could be confusing at all to people not born into it with innate understanding 😅 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago OK, I thought I had a good handle on Tea. I was wrong. T(ea)IL permalink fedilink source parent [–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) As a yank, it's because you're saying tea where the correct phrase uses coffee /s But for real, it's because over here we offer dinner to mean dinner, and coffee to mean "no obligation to sit through a meal or anything, but please come over/stay a while longer. A coffee can turn into a dinner, but it involves the intermediary offer of "I'm getting kind of hungry, would you like to stay for dinner?" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago Its much the same here, honestly in context it would be fairly clear what is meant. I mostly say dinner rather than tea myself. But yeah, the social thing to come and sit with a hot drink, regardless of tea or coffee, is generally to offer it as tea before asking if they want tea or coffee. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 month ago OK, I thought I had a good handle on Tea. I was wrong. T(ea)IL permalink fedilink source parent
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) As a yank, it's because you're saying tea where the correct phrase uses coffee /s But for real, it's because over here we offer dinner to mean dinner, and coffee to mean "no obligation to sit through a meal or anything, but please come over/stay a while longer. A coffee can turn into a dinner, but it involves the intermediary offer of "I'm getting kind of hungry, would you like to stay for dinner?" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago Its much the same here, honestly in context it would be fairly clear what is meant. I mostly say dinner rather than tea myself. But yeah, the social thing to come and sit with a hot drink, regardless of tea or coffee, is generally to offer it as tea before asking if they want tea or coffee. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Pipster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago Its much the same here, honestly in context it would be fairly clear what is meant. I mostly say dinner rather than tea myself. But yeah, the social thing to come and sit with a hot drink, regardless of tea or coffee, is generally to offer it as tea before asking if they want tea or coffee. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago (2 children) Coffee can be a meal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Bashnagdul@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You make coffee wrong.... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You’d think, but i lived close to a school where the 16 year olds had coffee and cigarettes as breakfast… permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago Kid I used to know did beer and a cigs for breakfast. He did not follow Icarus' path in life permalink fedilink source parent [–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) I've heard that a russian meal was a bottle of vodka and a pack of cigarettes, didn't know coffee could substitute that permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent [–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago I said can be. The way I make it is something else. permalink fedilink source parent [–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago I have not experienced that, but I have had a Bloody Mary that qualified as a meal. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Bashnagdul@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You make coffee wrong.... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You’d think, but i lived close to a school where the 16 year olds had coffee and cigarettes as breakfast… permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago Kid I used to know did beer and a cigs for breakfast. He did not follow Icarus' path in life permalink fedilink source parent [–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) I've heard that a russian meal was a bottle of vodka and a pack of cigarettes, didn't know coffee could substitute that permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent [–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago I said can be. The way I make it is something else. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) You’d think, but i lived close to a school where the 16 year olds had coffee and cigarettes as breakfast… permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago Kid I used to know did beer and a cigs for breakfast. He did not follow Icarus' path in life permalink fedilink source parent [–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) I've heard that a russian meal was a bottle of vodka and a pack of cigarettes, didn't know coffee could substitute that permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 month ago Kid I used to know did beer and a cigs for breakfast. He did not follow Icarus' path in life permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 2 points 1 month ago (2 children) I've heard that a russian meal was a bottle of vodka and a pack of cigarettes, didn't know coffee could substitute that permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent [–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Simon_Shitewood@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago (1 child) coffe and a cigarette is the traditional breakfast of most of the romance countries. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lileath@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago And most tradespeople in the rest of europe. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] TerHu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 1 month ago yeah, probably depends on where you live i guess permalink fedilink source parent
[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 point 1 month ago I said can be. The way I make it is something else. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 1 point 1 month ago I have not experienced that, but I have had a Bloody Mary that qualified as a meal. permalink fedilink source parent