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[–] 3 points 1 month ago (1 child)

As a yank, it's because you're saying tea where the correct phrase uses coffee /s

But for real, it's because over here we offer dinner to mean dinner, and coffee to mean "no obligation to sit through a meal or anything, but please come over/stay a while longer. A coffee can turn into a dinner, but it involves the intermediary offer of "I'm getting kind of hungry, would you like to stay for dinner?"

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  • [–] 2 points 1 month ago

    Its much the same here, honestly in context it would be fairly clear what is meant. I mostly say dinner rather than tea myself. But yeah, the social thing to come and sit with a hot drink, regardless of tea or coffee, is generally to offer it as tea before asking if they want tea or coffee.

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