Just gonna say you have now encountered one. When I was single I was very big on consent, getting tested, and using condoms. Was very sexually active in my late teens (still am but LT relationship) and I never had an STI scare.

I think you should keep asking for consent/still tests and using condoms because women are also rewiring their brains to forget a lot of toxic shit just like you are. They'll get there eventually. Women like me are out there, I think maybe less terminally online though.

Anytime somebody's talking about someone with a high or low social value my brain fuckin turns off lmao it's so dumb. Connection is what we should be seeking. Social media, and by extension online dating, has poisoned a lot of people's brains.

My advice, don't listen to these people and hold strong in your values and you will eventually sift through the shit and find somebody you have a connection with who finds it refreshing that youre honest or swap tests or ask for consent.