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[-] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 0 points 1 day ago

Why should i never meet my crushes? Should i just chase people i feel neutral about instead? A good crush inspires me to be romantic, carefully plan dates, and even take better care of myself, which is a nice cycle cause some of those things boost my confidence anyway even if the crush doesn't feel the same way.

[-] rumba@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

It's not literal, it's a play on never meet your heroes. The core concept is that you project the best of your internal morals and values onto them, and then when you meet them, you find out they're not as nice, loving, caring, or compassionate as you expected.

[-] FireRetardant@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I guess thats where i got lost. I usually need to get to know someone a bit for a crush to develop.

this post was submitted on 06 Jul 2026
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