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[OC] Anon is a femcel (thelemmy.club)
submitted 2 months ago by to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 3 points 2 months ago (5 children)

It's absolutely a skill issue by my age.

I have gotten dates at the grocery store before, which is where the second skill issue comes in: women don't stick around very long.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Ah well shit, maybe then idk. I have the opposite problem I guess, hard to start a convo, but if I do I can usually keep people around.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

    I mean, I definitely don't start convos the way people want me to start convos, either. Idk. Just had the weirdest experience last night. Two weeks ago, I met this girl who was pretty cool in a friend way. Also, she doesn't swing my way, no problem. Cool person. So last weekend I went out with her and some of her friends. One of her friends was kinda cute, we talked a bit, but not long at all. Nothing I would consider serious. I wasn't trying to hit on her. She didn't seem uncomfortable at all.

    Then last night, hanging out with the same group of people. This girl I talked to would straight up run away if I got within ten feet of her. Happened twice, and then I started avoiding her because like...clearly causing distress with my presence alone.

    What do I do with that? I mean apart from keep avoiding her, cause clearly she doesn't want to be anywhere near me.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

    Yeah idk what I'd do with that either, idk that I've ever had that reaction (if I have I just never noticed). I mean "completely ignore" seems like what I'd probably do tbh, definitely never interact again.

    Is that the right move? Fuckin' idfk lol. But that's what I'd default to.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    I only noticed because the second time I sat on the other side of the couch she was sitting on to check when the fireworks were gonna be, and she straight jumped up and out of the room. I wasn't like, close to her or leaning her way or anything.

    I probably give off some kind of creep vibes, I just don't really understand how or why, and at this point I have zero clue on how to fix it. Guess I just gotta accept that single straight women under age 50 avoid me like the plague. Old ladies at the yacht club love me.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago

    Lol I feel that, older ladies have always loved me too, and I haven't historically had a problem with that...

    Yacht club is beyond me, but bar milfs we've always clicked.

    Yeah idk she's definitely not into it, but I'm not Truman Showing you so I'm at a loss as to why. But that's the "no" you take for an answer and move on, ask another, fuck it.

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