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[OC] Anon is a femcel (thelemmy.club)
submitted 2 months ago by to c/greentext@sh.itjust.works
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[–] 3 points 2 months ago (12 children)

I like to think most of us (at least those of us on !femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone) simply want to commiserate and get emotional support while we don't have lovers.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 months ago (1 child)

    I think most people that frequent those type of communities feel the same, and I hope you and all of the emotionally vulnerable, man or woman, are able to get real help that you need to feel better and more self-confident. Pain in the heart is not a fun thing to spend one's time dealing with.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (9 children)

    Serious question, has anyone ever tried making a community for both incels and femcels so they can learn about each other and find common ground? I think it could be beneficial to both.

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  • [–] [S] 4 points 2 months ago (4 children)

    Last Incel I met was a child groomer.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (2 children)

    Oof. I can see where that would turn you off to the idea.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 months ago* (2 children)

    Incels and femcels are natural enemies.

    I'll put on my incel cap and you give the Incel answer: femcels dont exist. An Incel would say to a femcel "I'll date you" and the femcels would say no therefore proving the Incels point thats its voluntary celibacy.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 months ago (1 child)

    An Incel would say to a femcel "I'll date you" and the femcels would say no therefore proving the Incels point thats its voluntary celibacy.

    I won't lie, they would kinda have a point with that.

    I am not suggesting incels and femcels should date each other, that probably would be a bad idea, but some people who call themselves incel/femcel are just overly picky with unrealistic expectations of the kind of partner they can reasonably expect to draw the attention of. That is not involuntary, that is quite literally voluntary.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago*

    You are generous. Some incel/femcel types I've met were not picky... they were just totally undesirable human beings, either physical, socially, or emotionally.

    You may not believe it, but some people are the dregs of society and nobody wants to associate with them at all and no amount of 'improvement' will ever make them desirable to be around or date.

    Are some incels/femcels decent looking folks who are misguided? yes, and those folks may get out of their rut.

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  • [–] 0 points 2 months ago*

    No, they'd just hate each other.

    They don't want each other.

    The whole point of dating is to get someone who is socially desirable... not someone who isn't. Incels dont' want femcels and femcels don't want incels.... they want chad/stacy.

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