▲ 172 ▼ If you go into c/traaa on lemmy.ml you can see that every post has one downvote on it, so there's one person regularly coming into c/traaa from another instance and downvoting all the posts lol (hexbear.net) submitted 3 years ago* by HornyOnMain@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net 87 comments fedilink hide all child comments The best bit is that we can't even see it lmao
[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 14 points 3 years ago (13 children) nah we excise those types here. Yes, don't let it get to you, but also, don't let it happen if you don't need to permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 13 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 10 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (12 children) I can see excising for hate speech. And for trolling. But you do so for a downvote? Or did I misunderstand? E: cosecantphi explained what's going on. I understand now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] cosecantphi@hexbear.net 20 points 3 years ago* (5 children) It's not "just a downvote" when it's clear they are targeting any and all posts on the comm specifically for and by trans people. It'd be absolutely ridiculous to think this is just a coincidence where they happened to find fault in literally all of those posts for reasons other than transphobia. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 17 points 3 years ago (4 children) Yeah. I read your longer comment from earlier and it all makes perfect sense now. Sorry for sounding daft. I just genuinely didn't understand the extent. Sorry this is happening to you peeps :((( permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] KiraNerys@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Just so you know, this is a very refreshing attitude to see in terms of not understanding and then adjusting when it’s explained. I don’t know why it seems so rare to see, but it’s nice regardless. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago (5 children) We've been through this song and dance before, and know what we're doing. Read further through this post and you'll find a link I posted to a 3 year old thread detailing same/similar circumstances. I agree with you on principle, you can't change what you can't control, but here we can control, and we don't need to accept others' slights permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 7 points 3 years ago (4 children) AND you can't fix stupid, but you CAN ban it! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (3 children) You can also fix stupid, but they have to want to change. If it's someone drive-by-downvoting trans stuff, chances are they don't want to change. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 10 points 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) (12 children) I can see excising for hate speech. And for trolling. But you do so for a downvote? Or did I misunderstand? E: cosecantphi explained what's going on. I understand now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] cosecantphi@hexbear.net 20 points 3 years ago* (5 children) It's not "just a downvote" when it's clear they are targeting any and all posts on the comm specifically for and by trans people. It'd be absolutely ridiculous to think this is just a coincidence where they happened to find fault in literally all of those posts for reasons other than transphobia. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 17 points 3 years ago (4 children) Yeah. I read your longer comment from earlier and it all makes perfect sense now. Sorry for sounding daft. I just genuinely didn't understand the extent. Sorry this is happening to you peeps :((( permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] KiraNerys@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Just so you know, this is a very refreshing attitude to see in terms of not understanding and then adjusting when it’s explained. I don’t know why it seems so rare to see, but it’s nice regardless. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago (5 children) We've been through this song and dance before, and know what we're doing. Read further through this post and you'll find a link I posted to a 3 year old thread detailing same/similar circumstances. I agree with you on principle, you can't change what you can't control, but here we can control, and we don't need to accept others' slights permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 7 points 3 years ago (4 children) AND you can't fix stupid, but you CAN ban it! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (3 children) You can also fix stupid, but they have to want to change. If it's someone drive-by-downvoting trans stuff, chances are they don't want to change. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] cosecantphi@hexbear.net 20 points 3 years ago* (5 children) It's not "just a downvote" when it's clear they are targeting any and all posts on the comm specifically for and by trans people. It'd be absolutely ridiculous to think this is just a coincidence where they happened to find fault in literally all of those posts for reasons other than transphobia. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 17 points 3 years ago (4 children) Yeah. I read your longer comment from earlier and it all makes perfect sense now. Sorry for sounding daft. I just genuinely didn't understand the extent. Sorry this is happening to you peeps :((( permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] KiraNerys@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Just so you know, this is a very refreshing attitude to see in terms of not understanding and then adjusting when it’s explained. I don’t know why it seems so rare to see, but it’s nice regardless. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 17 points 3 years ago (4 children) Yeah. I read your longer comment from earlier and it all makes perfect sense now. Sorry for sounding daft. I just genuinely didn't understand the extent. Sorry this is happening to you peeps :((( permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] KiraNerys@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Just so you know, this is a very refreshing attitude to see in terms of not understanding and then adjusting when it’s explained. I don’t know why it seems so rare to see, but it’s nice regardless. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] KiraNerys@hexbear.net 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 15 points 3 years ago That's pretty! I had a friend named Kira. She wasn't trans, though, so probably not you. She was cool. I miss her. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ScrewdriverFactoryFactoryProvider@hexbear.net 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Just so you know, this is a very refreshing attitude to see in terms of not understanding and then adjusting when it’s explained. I don’t know why it seems so rare to see, but it’s nice regardless. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago I adjusted from 'not understanding' to 'understanding'. I guess, I did do it without any preconceived notions and did it with an open mind. I mean, and I don't mean to sound like "that person", but, if I'm not mistaken, you're a human and deserve the same type and level of respect as the next human. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 9 points 3 years ago (5 children) We've been through this song and dance before, and know what we're doing. Read further through this post and you'll find a link I posted to a 3 year old thread detailing same/similar circumstances. I agree with you on principle, you can't change what you can't control, but here we can control, and we don't need to accept others' slights permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 5 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 7 points 3 years ago (4 children) AND you can't fix stupid, but you CAN ban it! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (3 children) You can also fix stupid, but they have to want to change. If it's someone drive-by-downvoting trans stuff, chances are they don't want to change. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 7 points 3 years ago (4 children) AND you can't fix stupid, but you CAN ban it! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (3 children) You can also fix stupid, but they have to want to change. If it's someone drive-by-downvoting trans stuff, chances are they don't want to change. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (3 children) You can also fix stupid, but they have to want to change. If it's someone drive-by-downvoting trans stuff, chances are they don't want to change. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 3 child comments replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) I would imagine that stupid can't be fixed, because they'd be too stupid to be fixed. Those that can be fixed, wouldn't be stupid, but, instead, lost or confused. That's my take, anyway. Maybe I'm wrong. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] forcequit@hexbear.net 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Ehh everyone's capable of learning to some degree or another, it's not hard to be a decent person if you want to be permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 6 points 3 years ago That's true. If they want to change, and are willing to put in the work, they would be able to change. You have a nice view on the world, it seems, and I dig it. permalink fedilink source parent